58 Rocky Hill, United States
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My self-summary
Compassion, loving and living consciously is at the center of my life. Well, no maybe fun is really at the center. Friends love my laughter, smile, red hair, hugs, peacefulness. I had a google group called "Come play with me." Friends always wanted to know what fun stuff I was up to. I have a great sense of humor, but at no-one's expense...I'm easy to get along with, fun, interesting, deep, curious, honest, spiritual, playful, calm , peaceful, self aware, sensual...Looking for the man I can share this great juicy life with.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm in a transition phase, expanding my practice to have a broader impact. I never fancied myself an entrepreneur nor desired to have my own business....never say never . I'm excited for what's next. I'm a psychotherapist, Reiki Master and Kundalini Yoga teacher, write and present original/transformational workshops. I'm a trauma specialist and I work in hospice; walking to the edge of this life with someone and those who love them, is sacred, blessed work. I love what I do.

Ready for my life partner to show up, really excited for all that we'll be sharing together. Play time, fun, quiet time. I have lots of alone time, and I don't mind my own company at all, I'm kinda cool to hang out with, but looking forward to sharing it with someone who has a similar perspective on life, similarly joyful, optimistic, fun, generous, kind and compassionate. A perfect first date for me is taking a hike/walk at the reservoir or on a wooded trail, just getting to know each other and if we wish to continue...going out for tea after. I love to be outdoors in all seasons. I'm not into the "usual" things...I don't have a TV, don't go to the movies often, don't drink or smoke, been there done that...I prefer my life and my men, straight up. I want to feel and experience all of it! I enjoy eating out at Farm to Table or organic/whole foods restaurants. My life is deliciously stable, no crises, no "drama."

I have tremendous inner strength, I know who I am, am strong, healthy, balanced. I focus on being optimally healthy in all areas, almost there and seek that in my partner as well; eating organic, exercising daily, meditation, yoga....I take hip hop classes, that's a blast .....practicing gratitude, living in joy and abundance....being in my "right"mind and when I'm very lucky, during peak moments, being out of my mind. A very nice place to be.

I just started traveling. Got my first passport in 2014, first trip out of the country I went to China and 2 months later to Alaska. I'm learning what I like in travel. Being in a country's natural environment, the mountains, in the wilderness, state parks, being among the people. Eco vacations would probably be awesome.
I’m really good at
People remark that they feel good being around me, the same positive feelings of peacefulness, playfulness, serenity, joy, acceptance, laughter, love, fun carries into my home. I am exceptional at what I do.

I'm really good at driving a stick : ) Learned to drive a stick when I was 13 and the shift was on the steering column. I drive a Honda Civic SI. I love it when 20 somethings pull up next to me at lights and want to race. Love my car!
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and the red hair and that I am serene, peaceful, fun, sensual, radiant, kind.....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books : I'm a healer and I'm glad to see that "science" is now catching up with what healers have known and practiced for thousands of years! I read some of the science...Mind Over Matter, Childhood Disrupted.... I don't go to the movies much, but I enjoy watching some movies at home, comedies or spiritual cinema, or with friends. Loved One Hundred Foot Journey. I don't have a TV, haven't had one for 10 years. Love theater, contemporary dance and art. Can always find me at an outdoor concert, hiking in all seasons.... Music....ooh.... Jazz, R&B, Soul, Motown. Local band....Jus Us.... My friends, local artists and now Ct's 16th State Troubadour ; Kate Callahan...
The six things I could never do without
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I spend a lot of time thinking about
I don't spend a lot of time thinking, it's over-rated. I've already been smart, now I'm just wise. There's a difference. Wise comes with a lot less chatter. We only use 5 % of our brains anyway, right ? So I've just settled into understanding that I/we pretty much know nothing, and that's just such a great relief to me . Others think that I know something, and that's good, cuz it's kinda how I make my living : )
On a typical Friday night I am
I never really know....whatever comes up..... Jazz Fest, weekend get away, enjoying alone time, alone or not !
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Silly, we should wait at least until the first meeting to divulge such things. I can tell you that I've had 3 car accidents in my life. All 3....were in my garage.
You should message me if
The man who will grab my attention is the one who's smiling, who's profile is positive. If you're contacting me, I already know there's some attraction, that's how guys are made and I appreciate that. Beyond that your message will let me know that reading my profile you found even more that intrigues and interests you. Message me if you are wearing clothes, not holding up a dead fish, your photo is not a selfie in the bathroom with the toilet seat up, you're not wearing sunglasses, a t-shirt and a backward baseball cap....I'd love to hear from you if you have a little class, are stable, happy, self assured, spiritual, kind, and playful. Message me if, like me, most of the time, you have your shit together and when we don't we know we can lean on each other. I laugh easily and often, love being outdoors, hiking and in nature and I relish down time, intimate quiet time with my partner.

Peace out !