Cosmagus
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My self-summary
Nerd and curryholic. Nerd Cred below.

I love a good story whether its told in paint, print, or plowed fields.
Perspective is important to me, possibly the most important thing; I like to think and feel, to play devil's advocate, to 'walk two moons', laugh, and engage in meaningful conversation. I find that actively cultivating perspective allows me to be a more resourceful and empathetic person which makes up a lot of who I am. I've worked hard to become who I am and have had the privilege of great friendships, love, and understanding as my reward. I don't know why these connections fuel me but I am happy to live life heart first.
What I’m doing with my life
My hobbies are limited to nerdstuffs atm, mostly dungeons and dragons and anime lately.

I'm learning to sing(poorly) and loving it, getting in shape again, back at the dating game if you couldn't tell lol.

My ultimate goal in life is to give something back to the world in whatever way that I can, to connect with and understand as many people as possible and to be able to teach others these understandings so that they might grow to become better people and contribute to the healthy success of humanity(as well as the rest of the inhabitants of earth(and maybe someday other planets)). In the pursuit of all of this I intend to learn the 10 most spoken languages of the world and to pursue interpretation as a career. Duolingo is helping immensely with that haha.
Currently Actively Learning Spanish.
I’m really good at
Thinking on my feet, easier since my foot tends to live in my mouth haha.
The first things people usually notice about me
Glasses, smile, something geeky that I happen to be wearing(or doing).

I am always friendly but I don't conform to social norms mostly out of habit and that tends to be rather apparent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My tastes in music are fairly broad but selective. I listen to all but country. My favourite genres are: Electro-Swing, Classical, Blues, Metal, and Folk/World Music. Much like my tastes in music, my tastes in film and writing are broad and selective. My favourite genres are: Science Fiction, Fantasy, Non-fiction, and Comedy. I list my media preferences in this order: Book, Animation, Film, Video Game, Audio/Oral, Graphic Novel. Reading is one of my favourite activities and has been since I forced my mom to teach me to read as a child, my favourite book is The Stranger by Albert Camus.
This list isn't remotely close to fully updated but feel free to have a look: https://www.goodreads.com/Jafnvera

Film/TV:
Kung Fu Movies, Anime(http://myanimelist.net/profile/Jafnvera), Hook, Big Fish, Doctor Who, Adventure Time, Stargate, Neverwas, The Fifth Element, Supernatural, I'm A Cyborg But That's Okay, Going By The Book, Castaway on the Moon, Trollhunter, Parks & Recreation, Primer, Steven Universe, Rick & Morty, & more.

Food/Drink:
"Food, my goddess. Your eyes, like marinated brisket, fill me with anticipation of each bite. Your heart, slow roasted over a medium flame with assorted stewing vegetables, so tender and warm. Some days you're saucy, some you come plain or with noodles, but every day you remain my one and only, my true love."

Videogames. Just ask about this if its something you're into, it turned out to be too large for this space and dominated my profile lol.
Six things I could never do without
Tea, Noodles, Good People, The Stars, Great Conversation, and A Good Story.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future of Humanity & its place in the universe. Self-Improvement & Philosophy. The humanities are my deal. Scientific advancements and what they mean for the future of mankind. Food and Nerd-stuffs.The eventual collapse of capitalism and whether I will commit to taking part in facilitating that end.
On a typical Friday night I am
There is no typical Friday night for me, I like to keep things variable and spontaneous. I do spend a lot of time on reading and film, but I enjoy getting out and about occasionally. Most of my close friends have moved away so I spend more time by myself than otherwise these days.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can't think of anything I wouldn't admit to, given that it was the truth and my place to share. If you want to know something about me, ask.

Nerd Cred:

Ravenclaw, Horned Serpent, Fox Patronus.
Ash wood with a Phoenix feather core 10 ¾" and Quite Bendy flexibility.

For those DnD nerds out there:
C/G or N/G
Ability Scores:
-STR 12
-DEX 15
-CON 13
-INT 15
-WIS 16
-CHA 10
You should message me if
-You think a guy shouldn't always message first.
-You'd enjoy a good conversation.
-You drink tea and want to share a cup.
-You want to share experiences together.
-You don't mind that my best friend is female and will be my best man when that day comes.

1. I'm pretty open-minded and even excited when it comes to religions, cultures, and philosophies, however I am not open-minded to any sort of oppressive acts or dogmatic attitudes, especially those that encourage ignorance towards evidenced reality.
2. I am 100% for equality among all beings, earthbound or otherwise, especially those of the Homo Sapien variety. Life is rare in the universe and they are all important. If you are in extreme support or extreme opposition of any culture, gender, sex, way of life, species, religion, or colouring you might want to look elsewhere.
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