Working on media projects.
Here is an important piece for all OkCupid users:
Masturbate before searching people's profiles and contacting them. It should help you to better evaluate a person based on their profile and your compatibility.
Feminism is for Everybody by bell hooks
Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams
and some healthy crap too.
* ADD meds
* reading material
* writing material
How to improve myself.
Comic books and video games.
Philosophy and science.