30 Stony Brook, United States
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My self-summary
*Not looking for cisgender men.* I came to the realization that I'm not interested in men about a year ago.
I'm now seeing someone! We're poly.

These self-summaries are like trying to turn one's life and interest into the dust-cover on a book.
I'm not really good at doing self-advertising, which makes me a graphic artist unable to sell my art. Sometimes that happens, you go through life thinking you're one thing and, BAM, you realize you're not. So, I'm back to school for something completely unrelated- Environmental Science.
What I’m doing with my life
Living it?
I don't know. Trying to live it.

You know what?
Saying what you're doing with your life is absolute bull. It makes me think of little old grandmas sitting around drinking tea, looking for excuses to judge the youngin's.
I’m really good at
Lots of stuff and nothing. It depends on how high you set the bar of what makes someone 'good.' You might think I'm an excellent pianist, artist or whatnot, or you might think I'm an absolute dunce at all of those things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've asked a few people what they noticed, and they said my presence or aura. I'm radioactive!

I've also gotten quite a few comments on my eyes. They can't pick a color to be, so on any day they might look blue or green or grey.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Damien and SteppenWolf by Herman Hesse, The Picture of Dorian Gray by Oscar Wilde, Augusten Burroughs, Wicked, Nineteen Eighty-Four by George Orwell, Anne Rice, Poppy Z. Brite's horror, I Am Legend (but, the movie made me SO MAD,) World War Z (Haven't been able to get through the movie yet,) When Nietzsche Wept, A Brief History of Time and The Grand Design by Stephen Hawking.

Movies: Marebito, Velvet Goldmine, Suicide Circle, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Battle Royale, Party Monster, Moulin Rouge, Donnie Darko, Devil's Rejects, Dead and Breakfast, Iron Man, Zombie Land, The Devil's Advocate, When Nietzsche Wept, District 9, Bright Star, Scott Pilgrim vs The World, Cloudy With a Chance of Meatballs, Blue Gold: World Water Wars, Anchorman, Friends With Benefits

Music: Shakira, Britney Spears, Symphony of Science, Garfunkel and Oats, Lana del Rey, Macklemore and Ryan Lewis, and most 90s music, . Also- create a playlist based on 'The Final Countdown' by Europe on Pandora. It'll make your day awesome.

Shows: Steven Universe all the time forever, Carmilla, The 100, Jane the Virgin, Revolutionary Girl Utena.
The six things I could never do without
My computer, my cellphone, friends, poetry, good coffee, and hot showers.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything from wasps to cabbage to stardust, to how we've become so specialized as a society.
On a typical Friday night I am
Lately I've just been focusing on school and not too social. It happens.

When I'm not being a hermit, I'm pretty adaptable. I like going out drinking, clubbing, dancing, performing poetry, and more.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love both Gossip Girl and learning about quantum physics.
You should message me if
You're interested in chatting, or have a good documentary recommendation for me. I take a while to decide if I'm attracted to someone or not, I really need to get to know a person first.

Please do send me a message if you're looking for more lgbt friends. I'd like to have more of a community.

Bonus points if physical appearance doesn't mean much to you. I'm confident in how I look and I understand physical appearance is very important to most people, but it does very little for me. I'd kinda like to find someone else with that trait.

If I don't reply to you right away, I'm sorry! Give me time, I can be a bit shy.