54Springfield, United States
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My self-summary
"When you meet someone you love, do you kiss their clothes? ... Search out who is inside." --- Rumi

I am not ready for the dating thing, I am still processing things from my last relationship of 6+ years.
I am not interested in drama or negative personalities, I strive to look on the positive side of things, I always try to remain positive and do not want someone who is going to drain me of that energy.

I am an easy going man, mellow, laid back and chill most of the time, I do know how to relax and enjoy present company and surroundings. I avoid drama like the plague!
I am a sensitive compassionate, tolerant and kind Man, I have great love and respect for nature and all living things, save a few, like, mosquito's being one that's on my endangered list.
I enjoy working outdoors in the warm weather, planting gardens, I really enjoy yard work, listening to the sounds of nature with a soft fire going in the pit, good company and great conversation, oh! and coffee! Can't forget the coffee!
Automobiles and Carpentry are some of my interest's and talents.
Amateur Radio, computer repair / network security, I am a self-educated man with many years of "formal" education, with 6+ years of University and Technical training, and knowing "a little about a lot", I can hold my own in a good conversation, I am a sponge for knowledge.
I am looking for friends at this point, no "hook ups" just real friends, in time, things may or may not go in another direction but friendship are where all things begin.

Ok, so enough, lol. say hello, I will answer. :)
What I’m doing with my life
I am learning what it means to be me, always growing, expanding my mind and soul. Striving to connect with the inner pool of knowing, peace and tranquility.
I’m really good at
Being honest no matter what! Patience, Listening, Compassion, seeing the positive side of things. Contemplating problems and coming up with positive solutions. Being a Gentleman!
The first things people usually notice about me
I do not look my age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Autobiography of a Yogi, Fire in the belly, out on a limb, Zen and the art of motorcycle mechanics, Rich dad Poor dad, TAO,Many More..
Music: Blues, some Jazz, Rock , really do not care for Country.
Food: Italian, American, Homemade Chili,.. Tofu Parmesan, so much more.
Shows: (concerts) Ted Nugent, Black sabbath, Kiss, Whitesnake, Motley Crew, Yes, Bob Dylan, Jethro Tull, Johnny Cash, many more.
TV Shows: Grays Anatomy, NCIS, Discovery Channel, etc.
Movies: Platoon, Deer Hunter, Apocalypse Now, A Clockwork Orange, Full Metal Jacket, So many more, Too many to list!
Six things I could never do without
Family - Friends - Freedom - Love - Compassion - Trust
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life... And the pursuit of happiness. I spend a lot of time reflecting on me, I am Continually trying to improve myself on many levels. Ahh the human condition, always changing, growing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Honestly? I am sitting home or out playing pool with my nephews, I might just be out for a nice long walk, reading a book or catching a movie,. I do not do bars and clubs any more, those days are long behind me. I enjoy great conversation over coffee.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I blush. that's all you get for now. :)
You should message me if
You would like a new friend, or if your wanting to know more...
The two of us