25 Victoria, Canada
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My self-summary
My main goal in life is to live as honestly and earnestly as possible, and I know intimately how things can change before I can blink, or so slowly I don't even realize my mountains turn to valleys and my deserts become oceans. Whatever we have, in any given moment, is what we have. The past is a memory and the future has no guarantees. We could have something really special, right now.

I'm married, we're polyamorous, and we both want a partner who is an awesome friend with both of us.

So, if you want one new friend, two new friends, or two new friends and a polyamorous relationship, don't be afraid to let me know!
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to advance LGBT causes, supporting friends and fellows working towards a future with fully realized personal liberty.
I’m really good at
Being way too open and not worrying about that at all. In fact, here's what I really want to say about myself, and what I want you to know now. I'm not proud of these things, I'm just so proud to be me that I can't not share them now.

I am into BDSM, I'm a nudist, and I used to have a sex swing stand over my bed. I have a toy chest that's probably about 24 litres big, and my collection doesn't fit in it. I'm into ass play. It would be easier to tell you the toys I don't have than the toys I do. With that said, the only blood that turns me on comes once a month without me having to hurt anybody, so if you're looking for needle play I am not your guy.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I laugh too loud and too long.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
If we have common interests, I'd rather they be actual surprises. The moment a shared interest is found is always awesome.

Here's a sprinkling though:

The Stills
The Weakerthans
Classic rock in general
Hip Hop
Top 40
Zdzislav Beksinski
Eric Peterson
Junji Ito
Wes Anderson

I also make awesome omelettes and my mushroom caps are quite delectable.
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
New developments in tech, social justice, politics, that kind of thing. I watch quite a lot of news.
On a typical Friday night I am
I like my Saturdays to be not-hungover, so during the week I'll host a clothing-optional BYOB potluck and "hang out" with my friends.

We had an oil wrestling night once, twenty friends of mine showed up. I'd put up a picture of me wrestling two girls at the same time but, sadly, there's full nudity haha.

My parties are not sex parties, and I don't swing. They are a place to be comfortable with your body and supporting others in doing so.

My group is on fetlife, if you're interested please feel free to bring it up!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't want to get laid before I can lay naked with someone for an entire night without feeling obligated to fuck them.

I don't want anything in my life to ever make me owe anyone sex, that's the most heinous crime perpetrated on our society. Nobody is ever entitled to anyone else's sex.
You should message me if
You're an open honest person. And if you made it to this section with a smile on your face.