47 Amherst, United States
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My self-summary
First, and foremost I am looking for a real heart connection and need to begin by building a strong loving and trusting friendship...I am looking for a woman who understands and is able to Love, honor and respect my femininity.

Now on to my profile....

I have a mix of masculine and feminine energy. Because I was born and identified as male for most of my life, I still honor and respect that side of me (and at times I flow into full masculinity). But the majority of the time I see and feel like a woman at heart. It is complicated and heart-wrenching at times, but my fluidity and ability to shift back and fourth has also brought me many blessings and joy.

My gender identity is not the only thing that makes me feel a lot like a walking paradox. For example, I'm studying shamanic healing and Tantra but love watching a hard-hitting football game, and LOVE Heavy Metal.

I am a very honest person, and I know that being honest begins with me. I strive to be completely self-aware and be constantly challenging myself to evolve into a better person every day. Towards this end, I'm deeply introspective and also want to hear about what's happening in your mind, too.

For those who care, my day-job is as a therapist in a Group Home for at-risk youth.

Hobbies: Reading, writing, watching football (Go Cowboys!), games, Role-playing games, puzzles/riddles, going to storage auctions (yes, like the TV show Storage Wars), and video games to name a few.

my favorite past time is spending time with my daughter and my dogie.

I am looking for a loving and serious long term relationship with an open minded woman that can keep up with me, intellectually, emotionally and spiritually...
What I’m doing with my life
Being a parent to a wonderful 17 year old young woman.
Building motivation to finish writing my book(s).
Serving Spirit.
Having fun.
Writing a series of books....
Recconective Healing, Shamanic Healing, Sexual Healing....

Establishing my healing and teaching practice at Unity Healing Temple, in Greenfield, MA. Check us out at www.unityhealing.com

Exploring my future within ISTA (International School of Temple Arts) organization and where it will all lead. https://www.schooloftemplearts.org/
I’m really good at
Affection & Cuddling
Trying new things
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes or my tattoos, which seem to have a way of peeking out of my clothing (in warm weather).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: For fantasy novels. Elizabeth Moon (any and all her work) and Steven Erickson's Malazan Book of the Fallen are my two current favorites.

Secrets of the Talking Jaguar, Shamanism as a Spiritual Practice for Everyday Life, The Woman in a Shaman's Body, Urban Tantra, Ecstasy is Necessary, Polyamory: The new Love Without limits, Pagan Polyamory, Sacred Sexual Healing: the Shaman Method of Sex Magic...

Movies: I Am, The Secret, Food Inc....

TV: Currently addicted to Storage Wars and I have been inspired to buy a van and starting attending storage auctions. Anyone care to join me? :-)

Music: When home and relaxing I like to listen to Zen-on Sonic through DirecTV
Otherwise my true passion is for Heavy Metal, my current favorite is Opeth.
Opeth exist in a genre of one.

Check them out...tell me what you think.

Foods: Burgers and Pizza are my comfort foods. I also like spicy ethnic food. Recently, a friend of mine has been introducing me to wheatgrass, juices, and raw foods, and so I would love to explore this area further with someone.
The six things I could never do without
My daugther, my dog, Love, a good book, Music, my Spirit-guides, having fun/laughter......
Living with an open heart...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how life often unfolds in ways that one could never predict and how often we are asked to "step up" in life in ways that I could have never imagined. I also think about how to let go of the things that don't serve me any more.
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending time with my daughter, playing video games with her, reading, writing....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I believe in Tony Romo...don't laugh...(COWBOYS are Superbowl bound with Ezekiel Elliot)

I have a few tattoos related to my spiritual faith and Shamanic practice, with the possibility of more to come...

I am gender-fluid, MTF trans-feminine being (which plays an integral part of my spiritual practice).
You should message me if
If you want to check out a storage unit auction, which is like going to a tag sale, flea-market, and antiquing rolled into one with the added pleasure of finding hidden treasures. I really would love to have some company when I go to storage auctions.

You know any good Heavy Metal bands you want to share with me.

Spirituality is an important part of your life.

you want to share a drink or cup of coffee/tea talk about life and get to know each other. Go for a walk in the woods...

If you aren't afraid of a meeting someone who can be both feminine and masculine.

If you can see past my masculine appearance and find my feminine soul.

You want to start slow and build a friendship before intimacy. This is very important to me...Looking for LOVE, not just sex...