61Hartford, United States
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My self-summary
Thank you for your interest in my profile! If you are a man of quality and self-clarity, I'll be excited to make your acquaintance.

While I am grateful for dating sites as convenient ways to meet, they obviously have limitations. I’d want to encounter you in person early on, to determine potential chemistry and compatibility -- usually clear within a date or two. Please understand I only reply if you have photos posted and live relatively nearby. Also, I’m not ultimately looking for a pen pal, even though I do enjoy heartfelt and clever writing.

About me: Friends say I’m attractive, intelligent, funny, approachable, energetic, and enthusiastic; I agree with them! and seek similar traits in a partner. I enjoy a wide range of cultural activities such as movies, concerts and live theater, travel, galleries, dancing and poetry readings. How about you? Sharing projects, walks on the beach, or relaxing evenings at home can also be bonding.

About you: Be an attractive, intelligent gentleman of generous spirit who has many interests and is flexible of energy, curiosity, and time for an intellectually, emotionally, and physically passionate connection involving culture, travel, and lots of laughter.

In relationships, I value physical and verbal affection, mindful clarity, sharing, play, win-win negotiations, appreciation, open-heartedness, spontaneity and laughter. If critical “chemistry” is missing between us, we're adults, right? No harm; no shame. There’s always the possibility of a focused friendship -- for movies, day-trips, discussions, maybe even sailing to Alaska or such ...

Although I understand the value of money, I will not be impressed by your boat, cars, or gold chains -- sorry! I seek spark rather than flash! If you are a gentleman of quality and good health, who cherishes meaningful, sustainable connection with mutual respect, alongside fun, culture, recreation, gratitude, and possibly travel, then yes, please do message me.
What I’m doing with my life
arts, poetry, & other passionate pursuits
I’m really good at
most things I have dreamed to accomplish -- and gratitude for those talents that came easily as gifts.
The first things people usually notice about me
my constant smile, my hair, my eyes, my laughter, my quirky sense of humor
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm deliberately eclectic -- I especially enjoy theater, films, art, poetry, and books that provide new info & challenge me; music that relaxes me, and food that comforts me!
Six things I could never do without
...air, water, nature (seem obvious but why so threatened?) culture, affectionate touch & laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
hmmmmmm, I'm usually intuitive so don't have to think long about much -- though I really do enjoy thoughtful conversations.
On a typical Friday night I am
out of the house with Art (& culture)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Nope, not here; though I am willing to be open & honest & trusting in person.
You should message me if
if you are intelligent, curious, a considerate listener, attractive, articulate, creative, educated, energetic, funny, alive, passionate ... &/or wanting a travel companion and perhaps the love of your life (this phase)
The two of us