JEFonly1F
33 Olympia, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a fairly casual guy who very passionately strives to make art and music in a town where there are way too many non-functional, alcoholic sociopaths, who dress like cool artists, but in fact all they really do is drink and try to get laid. It's rather boring and gross. Since the Olympia art/music (ALCOHOL!) scene is too cool for school, I spend most of my free time alone, or with my trusted band mates, (Best friends) working on my crafts. At least when I'm not at school working my ass off. I like to laugh and I love to make others laugh. l smoke weed when l feel like it, which does nothing to hinder any of my passions and or abilities. Oh, and I like to exercise everyday. I've been single for a very long time, by choice, and I feel like it's time for that to change. Looking for someone genuine who might actually care about me, which would be kind of a first in my life. (At least romantically.)
What I’m doing with my life
Besides attending Evergreen... I am focused on music and art. Currently I am working on a series of comics, as well as the occassional flyer, or album art for someone's band. Also still working on a series of highly detailed illustrations using the outdated Microsoft Paint program and mousepad. Fuck you photoshop and light pens! ;) Musically I always have a couple projects going at once, (Chalk it up to being an experienced drummer. Apparently we are a rare and elusive breed...) Right now l feel exceptionally lucky to be playing in a band with really excellent musicians, who also just so happen to be humble, down to earth, and don't give any fucks about the "Olympia music scene". Also, I have been regularly exercising and eating healthy for a little over a year now. Trying to get back in shape and feel healthy... and it's totally working!
I’m really good at
I've been an artist since before I can remember, and I have played drums in experimental rock groups for16 years now. I also love to write, read, listen and learn. Also, l've been playing video games since l was 3, and consider myself a genuine gamer, because l fucking love it. That being said, l don't play all the time like most people. They serve as a stimulating reward for downtime, after l've done my work, and spent time on my true passions. Still though, if you hate video games, we just won't be compatable.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably, possibly, maybe that I can suddenly go from a bit shy, to completely confident and full of snappy banter. I also think that many people notice physical traits first, so they might be thinking, "He's about as ugly as they come!" or even possibly, "He's not too shabby..." really, who am I to know? Oh, and hopefully I was able to make them laugh which is something I get huge personal satisfaction in doing and I'm completely selfish about because let's face it, it's a win-win. So yeah, hopefully they leave thinking I'm somewhat funny and not a depressed sack of moldy tangerines. I think it's also important for you to know that l'm not easily offended and l'm not worried about offending. l might cross a line for the prudish and overly politically correct folks out there, although l'm not thoughtless about this and understand there is a time and a place. Still in good taste, it's all about context and present company...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Graphic Novels: Anything by Grant Morrison, ( The Invisibles, is my all time favorite! ) Warren Ellis, (Transmetropolitan) Alan Moore, Frank Miller, and Neil Gaiman for starters...

Books: Mainly fiction, Reading everything by Neil Gaiman (American Gods was great!) Red Wall, The Hobbit / Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, Conan, Watership Down, This is Your Brain On Music...

Movies: way to many to count. I like all different genres and styles, even the bad ones! Anything comic book related, Tarantino, Miyazaki, Wes Anderson, Stanley Kubrick, Peter Jackson, Rodriguez, Christopher Nolan, Tim Burton, Richard Kelly, just off the top of my head...

Shows: Once again, way to many even though I don't watch "television". Thank you interwebs....

Music: If I had to narrow it down (Really hard task!) Shudder To Think and anything else by Craig Wedren, Oingo Boingo and everything Danny Elfman touches, Everything by Black Francis (Pixies, FB solo, FB and the Catholics), Everything by Mike Patton, Estradasphere, Secret Chiefs 3, Depeche Mode, Lana Del Rey, Genesis, The Fixx, The Melvins, Thomas Dolby, Pavement, Built To Spill, Nomeansno, Yes, Momus, Pre Fab Sprout, Battles, Tomahawk, Tears For Fears, Guided By Voices, tons of underground, tons of main stream, tons of local music. I love all kinds of music, though I still have very specific tastes. I stray from generic, not just music, but everything...
The six things I could never do without
Love, happiness, music, art, family, change...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
concepts for stories I write, musical ideas, other people, and in general, daily craziness. There's a lot more going on upstairs that l reserve for those who get to know me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing music, hanging with friends, walking and jogging, rollin around a parking lot near my house on a skate board, working, or relaxing watching movies or playing games...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've been single and pretty damn lonely for many years. More than I would like to admit. It used to bother me and messed with my self-confidence, but now I don't care. I will either meet a great gal who loves me back, or I won't. The trick is to not let loneliness make you bitter, and I only know that from experience. That being said, I'm a happy confident person. I have hope and I strive for my goals...
You should message me if
You are not a completely material person. If you like comic books, fantasy, and film, fun, and laughter. Comedy is great! So great in fact that I find it to be very healing and good for the soul. Please message me if you have any great music you'd like to share. If you would like to create art or music with me. I am looking for someone special who wants to be with someone special and take their time doing it. Doesn't mean we can't be romantic during that process, but I would like it based off of a strong, fun filled friendship. That probably sounds cheesy, but I don't care, it's the truth.
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