Goddess of chaos. Joyful noise. Pirate mermaid. Benignly Unhinged. Southern Hospitality. Backstage Pass. Companion Animal. Nice person. Kinky Kitty. Captain of Candyland.
Right now I'm ok with emotionally mature open relationships. I'm also ok with entertaining the thought of a monogamish relationship. Clear communication skills are sexy as hell.
I'm here seeking friendships with the possibility of more, but friendship first.
I LOVE love and am open to falling in it. But like most of the finer things in life, it requires Time, Energy, and Emotional Availability to establish the kind of partnership I seek in that regard. Again, Friendship First!
*(I feel compelled to say to you, people of OKCupid, that "Falling In Love" is not actually a First Date type activity for me. I'm adding this line because, well, why does any "fine print" exist?! right?! ..So. That said, it's always easy to discuss Love* in the epic appreciation way in a First Date setting with yours truly.)
Smart mouthed cynicism, starry-eyed romance, and something entirely else...
Myers-Briggs: FART.... Oops, I mean INFJ
Authentic as fuck. Attracted to people who tell and live their truth. Be real or be gone.
I relocated to SF from Oakland in July - completely by trial and error and relative to immediate pet friendly housing options. I like the city but I still cross the bridge to East Bay.
*Loves: My cat, burritos, reading books, my awesome friends, camping and hiking, sunsets, snuggling, dinner parties, art, swedish fish.**
**Seriously, I'm probably more thrilled by swedish fish than any person ever. I will straight up swoon like a 16 year old getting a corsage from her homecoming date when graced with a gifted bag of red gummy fish.
Walking City Dogs
Touring the hell all over the place with a punk marching band
"Hanging In There" like a proper poster kitty
(Yes, I have seriously done this before.)
bizarre, irreverent, sarcastic, punk as fuck, romantic, darkly comedic, informative, dreamy, awe-inspiring, innovative, classical, erotic, fun or intense as hell? Then i probably like it. But since all of these things are "beauty in the eye of the beholder".....let's just have long interesting talks about what it all means instead.
HONKFest / street party bands, New Orleans party brass
Rockabilly, gypsy punk, garage rock, classical, vintage country, sassy girl bands, Dance party booty bass...Playlists for everything ever. Record collection for days. Music is a huge part of my life and times.
I read A LOT...I like books. Actual books with paper pages. I have a strange habit of rubbing my fingers on the edge of the page subconsciously when I'm really deep into whatever thing I'm reading...People who notice find it either endearing or annoying.
Bookshelf view on relationships -
"Sex After Dawn"
Whatever the hell Dan Savage just said
"A Natural History of Love" - Diane Ackerman
"M Train" by Patti Smith
"Places" by Colette
How-To / DIY manifestos
"The Final Confession of Mabel Stark" by Robert Hough
photocopied zines from a long time ago
"If you go home with somebody and they don't have books, don't fuck 'em." -John Waters
(I like the movies of John Waters, he is doing it right)
Binge Watches: Broad City, Mozart In The Jungle, Orphan Black
Food.....Hmmmm reading at the bar and forgot what I ordered - surprise!....
Cave person cuisine. Piles of nuts and berries. Cheeseburgers. Chicken casseroles. Sushi. Pepperoni Pizza. Beer.
4. Excellent people
Nature / protecting the earth / tree huggery
reading books, performing with a circus band, having tea, watching live music, building art, snuggling my kitty...
I also told you about my swedish fish thing. That's all you get for now.
You know a really great joke. Most of the ones I know come from Laffy Taffy.
You have a good REASON to do so - particularly something you found interesting about my profile, which you are then capable of bringing up in an engaging fashion, maybe sparking a conversation that results in an exchange that is somewhat meaningful and at least entertaining for both parties involved.
*(Note: "U R Hawt" is not a reason to message me, Thanks!)
You want to hang out and do something low key and pleasantly amusing. I like cups of coffee and picnics in the park.
You "like" me. I'm pretty like-able. If you gave me a gold star or whatever.
I don't pay for the OKC channel - I mean, who actually does that?! Do you get more dates faster? Hotter sexier people? A VIP backstage pass to meet the drummer? Message me and fill me in on that....