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My self-summary
Lots of travels. Music in my bones.

Goddess of chaos. Joyful noise. Pirate mermaid. Benignly Unhinged. Southern Hospitality. Backstage Wackery. Silly Streaks.

Right now I'm ok with emotionally mature open relationships. Clear communication skills are sexy.

Companion animal. love collaborative projects - art, farming, music, life in general.

Myers-Briggs: FART.... Oops, I mean INFJ

Authentic as fuck. Attracted to people who tell and live their truth.
What I’m doing with my life
Minding my Manners

Festivals and gatherings coast to coast (usually performing, building stuff, stage crew, staff support, etc. )

fire tending. tree-hugging. Cat whispering.
I’m really good at
Dance partying.
Literary analysis.
Rocking out.
Petting cats.
Organizing stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
Glasses, Tattoos, and Sparkles.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
HONKFest / street party bands, New Orleans party brass
Rockabilly, gypsy punk, garage rock, classical, vintage country, sassy girl bands, Dance party booty bass...

I spent my twenties and early thirties either touring with bands or locked in a college radio station booth with a bunch of vinyl records being a punk/indie/obscure music fangirl... I LOVE music but I'm totally over being punker-than-thou :)

I read A LOT...
Bookshelf view on relationships -
"Sex After Dawn"
"Ethical Slut"

Comic books..... Catwoman. Batgirl. Harley Quinn. Supergirl.... Heroes, villains, it's all relative...morally ambiguous badassery.
Also Small indie press stuffs.

"If you go home with somebody and they don't have books, don't fuck 'em." -John Waters
(I like the movies of John Waters, he is doing it right)

Food.....Hmmmm reading at the bar and forgot what I ordered - surprise!....
Cave person cuisine. Piles of nuts and berries. Cheeseburgers.
The six things I could never do without
1. Gigantic Flaming Art in the desert
2. Glasses
3. Books
4. Excellent people
5. Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Making a positive difference in this world and being badass when I do that....
Also Fire. And cats.
On a typical Friday night I am
Being typical.
reading books, performing with a circus band, having tea, watching live music, building art, snuggling my kitty...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Private?! I just answered a ton of random questions about blow jobs, politics, dietary preferences, virginity losing, drugs, my pets sleeping on the bed, and what I like on my pizza…
You should message me if
You feel like it

You know a really great joke

You want to hang out - no pressure or expectations, friendship first.

You "like" me. I'm pretty like-able. If you gave me a gold star or whatever.

I don't pay for the OKC channel - I mean, who actually does that?! Do you get more dates faster? Hotter sexier people? A VIP backstage pass to meet the drummer? Message me and fill me in on that....