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My self-summary
I come from a small town on Lake Ontario, and have lived in New York State my entire life - from Buffalo to NYC. Recently moved to Beacon.

When I was 2 years old, my (much older) brothers taught me how to sing "Goodbye Blue Skies." And when I was 15, we moved on to Social Distortion.

Snowstorms, thunderstorms, lakes, and wool blankets make me feel at home. And that's my life story.

I want to meet people who are alive. I want to hear you talk about something that you care about.
What I’m doing with my life
Working a lot. In my spare time you can find me playing guitar, listening to the radio, and sleeping.
I’m really good at
Writing letters
Vocal harmonies
Long jumpshots
The first things people usually notice about me
My sweet cross-over as I blow by you on the basketball court.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
"Information is not knowledge, knowledge is not wisdom, wisdom is not truth, truth is not beauty, beauty is not love, love is not music. Music is the best." (FZ)

I love everything having to do with music. I play a few instruments, and I was once a trained as a classical singer. Seriously. I go through phases of practicing one thing or another, but right now I'm playing a good amount of guitar.

These are my favorites:

Music from all over the world. Township music, Eastern European folk and Balkan. In a second career I would have been a music anthropologist. Björk, Tom Waits, even Van Morrison with his band on a good night. Yo La Tengo, Rolling Stones, Wilco. Gillian Welch and David Rawlings, old time country and bluegrass. The Man Who Sold the World. Roomful of Teeth, Steve Reich, things of that nature... Most of what plays on New Sounds (a podcast). FZ

I try to balance fiction and non-fiction. This keeps my brain from devouring itself. I just re-read To Kill A Mockingbird, and I draw a lot of inspiration from Atticus Finch. I also recently went through a book of science fiction shorts selected by Ray Bradbury and Alfred Hitchcock. Other than that, a few of my favorites are Stoner, The Great Gatsby (hey, it's good), The Adventures of Kavalier & Clay, The Sun Also Rises, As I Lay Dying, and A Visit From the Goon Squad.

On a good night, you can find me in my kitchen, listening to the radio, and making something delicious. On an average night I am not this ambitious. No longer a vegetarian, I was raised as such, but a big fan of the vegetable kingdom. I worked as a cook at a restaurant in my hometown once, for a stint, so I can navigate a kitchen.

Movies: Her, There Will Be Blood, Man On Wire, O Brother, Y Tu Mamá También, The Pianist, East of Eden
Six things I could never do without
My voice so that I can talk to people;
Spending time outdoors, preferably by large bodies of water;
A musical instrument;
Other people;
Airplanes to take me to other people and places;
Letting go.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How all belief systems are inventions, so we should try to take ourselves much less seriously. And maintain an open mind. In reality, we all know very little...

For instance, we currently have no clue about:

(Update: we still haven't figured it out.)
On a typical Friday night I am
If I'm by myself: A nice shower then relaxing on my deck and watching the stars. Maybe watching a basketball game if it's October - June. Or maybe just snuggling up with a brew and a guitar, or a movie.

If I'm out: Seeing some music or a movie, dinner, or getting drinks with some true pals. Maybe all of the above.
You should message me if
You understand the importance of balance. You don't put up with bullshit. And you don't worry about things that aren't important.

Other than that, you really don't need a reason.
The two of us