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My self-summary
I consider myself friendly, funny, and outgoing. I'm always respectful, and easy to get along with. This site was suggested, and I thought I'd finally check it out. I enjoy starting things off with a little chatting, and seeing where things go from there. No major expectations right now; it seems the harder I look, the less effective these things are.

I'm the oldest of four, and I'm close to my family. Currently working downtown Indianapolis for IUPUI; I'm in customer service and have an extensive background in customer care. Former Walt Disney World Cast member through an internship.

I love to tell and listen to stories, getting to know someone with a shared connection is one of my favorite parts of developing a relationship. I try to be open and honest, so if you're interested or have questions, don't hesitate to ask. I'm very approachable and enjoy people in general. While I can't say "I won't judge" (because we all do, let's be honest) I allow plenty of room and ample opportunity for you to easily change my mind. Part of the fun!
What I’m doing with my life
Currently working, getting by on the day to day grind. I keep waiting for the day when I wake up and say, "I've got my shit together." I've got two degrees I'm working on finishing up; psychology and philosophy. I can't say my life has worked out as I'd planned years ago, but thankfully I'm very adaptable and have a knack for landing on my feet. Thankfully my life is solid, and I'm able to keep progressing and developing personally and professionally.
I’m really good at
Massages. Legit. It also doesn't take me long to get someone laughing. I'm a solid listener, decent cook, and I can make a killer playlist on iTunes.

I'm athletic, but only on a somewhat basic level. I ran division I cross country in college, and I'm still an avid runner.

I've got a few more talents; why bore you by listing them?
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm told it's my eyes and smile. But I'd like to think it's my pleasant and enjoyable (albeit sometimes dark) personality. Going to stop here before I'm overcome with vanity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Such a broad topic. I read a lot of Stephen King, Koonz, James Patterson, Christopher Moore, Thomas Harris, and anything else that grabs my attention.

I'm a big fan of The Walking Dead, and just recently started watching Game of Thrones. I'm slightly hooked. I also enjoy Criminal Minds, Hannibal, various comedies like 30 Rock, The Office, and Parks and Recreation.

Music? Can't get enough of it. I usually have something playing at all times. Currently listening to Elton John's "Goodbye Yellow Brick Road (40th Anniversary edition)" as I type this. I enjoy a lot of music. Let me put it this way; if you're ever in a "Name that Tune" competition, you want me on your team. You will win.

I like a lot of foods; but avoid a few specific things at all costs. Tomatoes and mushrooms for example. Seafood isn't really an option for me; but I do enjoy shrimp. Aside from that; excluding the vastly bizare, I enjoy eating almost as I enjoy cooking.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I usually day dream a lot! Not in that ditsy "aloof" type of way; just off in my own world. I've thankfully still got a very active imagination. Nine times out of ten, I'll already have a plan in mind should some disaster strike. I know exactly what to do should some undead thing come shambling through the front door, and I'm constantly trying to figure out how to make the morning commute easier and more enjoyable. So far I've been wondering if horses should make a comeback as the most effective form of travel. And can we please go back to using swords over guns?
On a typical Friday night I am
Keeping my options optimistically open! I don't often make plans, and usually operate on the fly. Not opposed to plans, and when I make them, I stick to them. I don't go out a lot, again not opposed to it. I am perfectly content staying in, watching a movie, Netflix, or if I'm feeling really boring; I'll read a book. If I am in a relationship, there are typically more plans, and more variety. I enjoy a lot of things, and really enjoy having someone to share them with; not to mention experiencing new things, and things they enjoy. This seems pretty bland...but it's true. I'll come back and embellish this one later.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I feel I've been fairly open thus far, and will continue to do so in future conversations, but let's see...

I was once asked to be a live in nanny for a few months for some of my extended family down in Memphis TN. They had four girls under the age of 14. I cooked, cleaned, tutored, and played "soccer mom" for half a year. Hard to get a date with two car seats in the back of my car btw. Anyway, knowing that I was an avid reader, the eldest (14) and I would talk about books she enjoyed, and ones I thought she would like to read as well. She would also provide suggestions, ensuring I would like the ones she let me borrow. Despite my protests, hesitation, and dismay; she was right. I ended up reading and enjoying, not one - but all four books in the Twilight series. # teamedward

The things I do for those I love. Sheeshh...feels so good to get that off my chest.
You should message me if
You want to, but for whatever reason, hesitate. I try to respond to messages as often as I can. A simple hello, or chat, is always a great place to start.

If you have questions, or want any clarification on anything you find in my profile. I'm okay with answering questions, and don't offend easily. So if you're sitting there wondering about something, just ask. Don't speculate, just get an answer from the source.

Send me a message if you're simply a decent human being. I'm not into jerks, or self-centered nut jobs. Saying hello can get the ball rolling, and if there is interest shared between us, it will hopefully become pretty evident. You never know what can happen.

Also...message me if your super rich. Just sayin (this was meant to be a joke, but some of you took it to heart, please don't. And for those of you who really wanted me to know how loaded you are; please message me your address and next the dates of your next planned vacation.)
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