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My self-summary
Big hearted and relationship oriented...with the right guy. I've been in Cally since 1996 more or less. I love what I do. It's not just a job it's a part of my life. I have wonderful friends and I am looking to add richness to my own life and someone else's. I am looking for a guy who is affectionate, emotionally available/present (as much as possible) and who likes to laugh (sometimes a lot!)
I am a Pisces at heart. I love being at home with friends and casual dinners with that special person-is most important.
I'm hiv neg and want to date guys who are hiv neg as well. I love to travel-New York and Paris are favorite cites. Africa, Australia, Bali, India, Vietnam are all on list of places I want to visit. In our own country I love all of California-especiallly Santa Barbara, LA, Palm Springs; I also like New Orleans, Savannah and Charleston.
I'm looking for someone who is giving, nurturing, and romantic. There, I said it. I prefer a guy who is aware of his emotions but also, strong and funny. Compassion is a key ingredient.

Looking for a fairly evolved type of guy and one with a great sense of humor.

If any of this strikes a cord say hello-
What I’m doing with my life
Just coming out of having worked for a large firm for the last 5 years-worked with wonderful people but, there is more to life than work!-I am loving working for myself-the flexibility is unsurpassed. I am wanting balance. Putting myself out there and having a wonderful rich personal life and starting a family are on my wish list.
I’m really good at
Great with kids!Laughing!-I like to mentor and see others do well. It's important that people not mistake my kindness for weakness for that would be their mistake. I am intuitive, as well
I can be a good cook and I am a good kisser. Finding the perfect gift is also something that I do quite well. Love to work outdoors in yard or garden
The first things people usually notice about me
hard to know what others would say...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book-Paul Bowles "The Sheltering Sky" Most of Jane Austen's works especially "Sense and Sensibility". As for films the list is long and wide.
I love Meryl Streep's work especially early pieces like "Sophie's Choice", the "French Lieutenant's Wife", and "Plenty". I also love her cameo in Woody Allen's film "Manhattan" which is one of my all time favorites. After that I quite liked Hannah and Her Sisters. Being from a family of 4 boys I can related to the sibling relationships. I also loved Catherine Deneuve in "Indochine" I'm also a huge Peter Greenaway admirer. I don't know if I can pick a favorite. I also like Tennessee William's works-Especially "The Roman Spring of Mrs. Stone"
Six things I could never do without
some of these are not things-but, you get the idea-
1.really good water I know it's bad to drink out of plastic but, I like FIJI- for drinking. i also need to shower every day...it's healing!
2optimism-I meditate in the mornings-it sets the tone for my day.
3.my family and friends
4.Humor-We need it to get through the rough patches and it makes things more fun
5.Santa Maria Novella-Vetiver soap for men...it smells amazing
6. The light of California-the entire state!
7.sleep! Need at least 8+ hours
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to make the world a more beautiful place-creating and attracting more love and abundance in my own life and the lives of those I love.
On a typical Friday night I am
if the week was busy, at home with a yummy dinner and a good film. Or out to dinner with friends...I like both-
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Private things are saved for in person not online-
That said I tend to spend too much on shoes!
You should message me if
Guys from 29-50ish. Please be HIV- no offense I lost a partner to HIV. I prefer guys who are monogamously wired interested in dating and long term relationship oriented. Start with coffee or a drink and see where it goes-
The two of us