38 Oakland, United States
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My self-summary
Sex driven, drug friendly, and sloppy pretty much sums it up thanks OKC!
Husband of 13 years, proud father, dog and cat parent, jack of all trades, non-monogamous, pragmatic, ISTJ, left handed, and good natured non-bro.
*fully legitimate open honest marriage.

Currently involved long term with a wonderful girlfriend so I don't have all that much time for dating nowadays. But then again, anything can happen.
What I’m doing with my life
40 hours a week repairing dirty old commuter trains. Fixing stuff and figuring out how stuff works, showing my daughter how stuff works, raising my 5 year old to be an intelligent strong woman and not a princess. Going to shows, drinking beer, house maintenance, yard work, and other adult like shit.
Recent projects include replacing the drain pump on our washing machine, removing the recirculating pump from the dishwasher because some garbanzo beans got stuck in the impeller. Replacing the spindle, steering rack, and suspension on my vw passat wagon (yes I cruise in a mom wagon..).
I’m really good at
rocking a farmers tan, laughing at myself, welding, booking air travel, compersion, troubleshooting in the physical realm, parallel parking any stick shift vehicle on a hill while it's raining, reading the female body's reaction to touch, simplicity, keeping houseplants alive, whistling like a mexican (all about the tongue roll), making peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, enjoying the silence, rolling with the punches, rolling joints, bear hugs, kissing you on the head, being politically incorrect, changing timing belts, grilling chicken, cunnilingus, making tortilla soup, rambling on
The first things people usually notice about me
Green eyes and gentle disposition towards life.
Bay area: natural hair color and complete lack of tattoos or piercings.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
technical manuals, electrical schematics, maintenance bulletins, ethical slut, east of eden, bourdain, janes addiction, beck, frank zappa, southernplayalisticadillacmuzik, flaming lips, lcd soundsystem, los fabulosos cadillacs, tame impala, lebowski, young frankenstein, charlize theron, papalote, bens chili bowl, kebabs
The six things I could never do without
Craft brew
Hand tools
Wet wipes
Commercial grade marijuana
Snuggling with my wife and daughter
Binders full of women (name that douchebag)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
living in the meow, belief systems, collective human enlightenment, the negative effect burning man has on the environment, scheduling issues, orgasm control, the plethora of creative gender labels found on okc profiles
On a typical Friday night I am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Shit, if it's gonna be that kinda party I'm gonna stick my dick in the mashed potatoes.
You should message me if
If you aren't looking for "the one", relate to open marriage, ethical non-monogamy, are sex positive, easy going, down to earth, and are down to grab an adult refreshment some time. Bonus points if you aren't a huge fan of makeup and artificial scents.