J_B_P_D
47Austin, United States
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My self-summary
One thing that bugs me about online dating is that a girl will initiate a chat with something like "Hello"; and then when I try to keep the conversation going, she only gives one-word answers. She gives me nothing to work with. I try to keep things building (or at least rolling) by asking her a lot of questions only to get more brief responses and eventually either I run out of ideas for questions and the whole transaction is a waste of time and goes nowhere, or she thinks I'm a creepy stalker because I'm asking her all these questions. There needs to be some sort of conversational basis in order to ask someone out on a date. Please actively engage and contribute to the conversation. Make an effort. I can never tell whether the girl has lost interest or not when she only gives minimal responses. I like women. I do not like to pester women. They already put up with so much unwanted attention in their day-to-day lives.

Another thing is that there are so many scam-bots out there that I need to first figure out whether the girl is an actual local person and not someone trying to sell me something or rip me off somehow.

I'm a fairly happy and content person. I'm perfectly happy being single.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a field engineer for Diebold. I install and remove ATMs, take them all apart and put them back together again. Load and update software. Keep them connected to the network. Everything ATM. I work all over the central Texas region with various bank people. I like my job a lot. Every day is new and unpredictable and I'm always learning. Out and about and not stuck in an office.

No kids. Never been married.
I’m really good at
People-watching.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I really love reading people's true accounts of encounters with ghosts and the paranormal.

I don't really listen to music. Don't watch TV or see movies.

I've played in a lot of bands through the years.

When I get off work, I'll typically open the iPad and browse through the news, then maybe read a long piece like something from The Atlantic. Then I'll look for some ghost stories and end it all by looking at the dank memes of the day. By then, I can't keep my eyes open and I go to sleep. That's my typical evening after work.
Six things I could never do without
iPad mini. Pistachios. Ear plugs. Vivarin. My awesome bed. Those are some.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Quite frankly, I don't give a shit about the way I look. I look like what I do.

I guess I think a lot. I drive around all day and never have the radio on. I have a lot of internal dialogue.
You should message me if
I'm a very nice, kind, sweet, generous, considerate person. Congenial, conversational, have no weird hang-ups. I love who I am and what I do. I'm not a douche-bag and I don't scare women. I don't put on any aires. If you were to meet me it would just be casual, straight-forward and honest. I have professional relationships, and I think I would be described as likeable, easy-going, informal, cooperative and humorous.
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