33Fort Lauderdale, United States
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My self-summary
My name is James. I was born in Maryland a few miles outside of DC. Most of my family and friends still live there. 

I currently reside in Fort Lauderdale FL & frequently travel to the DMV to visit friends.

My personality type is ISTP.

I strive to be an interested man not an interesting one. I do my best to be respectful of others. I give my time at every opportunity within reason. I wish to develop & maintain healthy relationships with positive like minded people. I work hard to create a strong, mind, body. I lead by example and will leave a legacy to my family. I strive to be honest, forgiving patience, and open minded.

Please do not message me if you are not interested in communicating over the phone or face to face. I am not looking for a pen pal or a text relationship.

Do not contact me if you are addicted to social media and or reality television.

If you are close minded, we definitely will not be a good fit.

I'm a sapiosexual, teach me something.

Physical attraction is not as important to me as the qualities listed below. I am attracted to a woman's intellect.

I was raised to be respectful, polite and considerate. I am authentic, fun, loyal, nonjudgmental, open minded, positive and supportive. I seek similar qualities in a partner.

I'm seeking an emotional available, mature, genuine, intelligent woman who is striving to live a balanced and healthy lifestyle.

I value self awareness, compromise and directness when resolving interpersonal issues. I would like to meet someone I can grow with in a healthy relationship.

If you believe a mutualistic relationship is imperative and that commitment, communication and intimacy are keys to a healthy relationship, we could be a match.

I am an introverted extrovert and can be somewhat nervous at first, although I'm told it's not noticeable. 

I am a non conformist. I am definitely not the type who follows many conventional norms in any aspect of life, professional, educational, financial, political or religiious. 

I am an outside the box free thinker. I value my family, friends and my time. I make my significant other a priority. I wear my heart on my sleeve.

I attended both Widener and Towson University. I studied business management.

I am a licensed real estate agent & Insurance Agent. I am currently studying for my series 6 investment license.

I own and manage a few vacation rentals.

My passion is financial planning. I am working to become certified finacial planner and financial coach. I teach financial literacy and provide money mentorship.

I love helping people. I would like to start a non profit that will focus on teaching financial literacy to youth and young adults.

I would consider myself a humanist and a womanist. I believe in a higher power and respect everyone's religious and spiritual views and beliefs.

Please message me if you would like to know more.
What I’m doing with my life
My main focus has been on self improvement and life balance. I have been trying to pay more attention to excercise and nutrition.

I have lost over twenty pounds in a year. I know its not a lot and plan to step it up the next 6 months.

I love food. I am considering taking a cooking class. If you know how to cook I would love to learn.

I spend a lot of time on my education mostly non traditional. I listen to all types of podcast and audio books.

I taught myself how to build a website. My site went live in November 2014.

I got my real estate license early 2016.
I got my life insurance license in late 2016.

If you want to know more please send me a message.
I’m really good at
Giving financial advice, poker, listening, being adaptive, thinking creatively, thinking objectively, not following dominant society, reaching my goals and conquering challenges and playing tennis.
The first things people usually notice about me
My genuine smile and my extraordinary height lol. I have been told I look tall in my pictures.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite books Rich Dad Poor Dad and The Slight Edge.

I also enjoyed the 4 hour work week, The Millionare Next Door, The Millionaire Realestate Investor, The Emyth, Think & Grow Rich, Emotional Intellignece, How to win friends and influence people, 10x Rule Millionaire Fsst Lane and Willpower.

I use to watch a lot of tv during my online poker days. I still watch several shows usually while playing. I do not like reality television. Some of my favorite shows current and past include.

Power, Leftovers, Last Ship, The Strain, Entourage, House of cards, 24, Prison Break, Damages, Dexter, Shameless, The Wire, Mad Men, The Killing, Who Killed Emily Rose, Deadwood, Lost, Alias, Tudors, Breaking Bad, Sons of Anarchy, Suits, Californication, Weeds, Big C, Nurse Jackie, Nikita, Rome, Last Resort, The Good Wife, True Blood, Awake, Chuck, The L Word, Homeland, game of thrones, The Borges, Battlestar Galatica, Scandal, Walking Dead, Nashville, Vampire Diaries Chicago Code, Falling Skys, Blue Bloods, Smash, Dexter, Hell On Wheels, Spartacus, House Of Lies Elementary, Revenge, Shark Tank, Jericho, Sopranos, The Following, Black List, The Affair, Narcos, Daredevil & Orange is the New Black.

I like all types of movies except for horror.

Some of my foods include Italian,Tai, Seafood, Sushi Jamaican, Spanish, French, Greek Colombian Chinese, Indian, BBQ, Mexican & anything breakfast.

Favorite meals.

Maryland crabs, penne with vodka with shrimp and scallops, raviolli with gorgonzola sauce, white tail sushi and sashimi, eggs Michael and eggs Benedict waffles and Veal Parm seafood Penang curry chicken pad tai and shrimp quesadillas, kahdi paneer.

Music I'm very open. I listen to hip hop r&b slow jams classical rap jazz fusion , Motown some country some alternative , some soft rock, some club music, some pop. I enjoy GoGo, salsa techno, ska and reggae and at the club.
Six things I could never do without
Listening to my podcast and audio books that give me new perspective and a wealth of knowledge.

Tasting, smelling and enjoying a new dish at a unique restaurant.

Enjoying adventurous outings with friends and family with lots of laughter.

Traveling to new destinations and seeing and experiencing the culture.

Healthy intellectual discussions and debate that expand the mind.

Intimacy and physical touch, kissing cuddling and of course sex.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My food addiction, and how long it will take me to lose 15 more lbs, what travel adventure and cruise I should take next.
On a typical Friday night I am
I like to unwind with a delicious meal; sushi, Thai or Italian and have a Netflix binge. I will occasionally go out dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a lightweight when it comes to drinking alcohol , my socks never match and I get a manicure once a month.
You should message me if
The type of woman I find attractive tends to be a mix of an introvert and extrovert.

She is not content or complacent and values self improvement and personal development.

She is supportive her partner.

She is not judgmental and is accepting of all religions and people. She is a humanist by nature.

She can hold an intelligent conversation. She is emotionally available, financially responsible and a free thinker.

She enjoys being active, but also enjoys a Netflix binge here and there,

She enjoys cooking, like dogs, movies, traveling, sports ( Lets Go Skins ! )

She is caring, genuine, honest, fun trustworthy, open minded and seeking a committed relationship.

She is financially literate or willing to learn, owns her own place or has aspirations to do so.

If any of this sounds like you. Send me a message and we can see where things lead.

IG. Thepokerproneur & RossofRe

The two of us