It has come to my attention that I need to update this to make myself a little more clear.... I know everyone says "I'm different," but let me explain that I am not the typical guy who likes sports, bars, cars, and guns. If you want to watch football on Sundays I'm cool with that, but it just isn't my thing (I know I just eliminated quite a few of you).
Music and writing are my two main passions. I've been a drummer for over half of my life and I've published three collections of short fiction. I believe deeply in following your dreams and nothing else can compare to what you truly love to do. I'm always striving to better myself and become more sensitive and aware to this ever changing world that we live in.
A more recent goal of mine is to get in better shape and stay healthy. I'm by no means perfect, but it would be great to find someone who likes to go hiking, biking, et cetera ....
I'd like to find someone who is intelligent, sweet, open minded, affectionate, and adventurous. Being laid back is also very important to me as well. If you are an incessant talker, or you can't sit still for long then it probably won't work out. One of my favorite things to do is curling up on the couch with that special person to watch a movie.
Above all, I am searching for someone that I can really talk to and laugh with. With that being said, I know you cannot force a connection with someone. Either you feel something or you don't. Although I am ultimately looking for something serious, I know that takes time. No pressure! If you are on the same page as me I hope to hear from you :)
P.S. You probably won't get a response if you send something like this: "hi im jan how youdoing i relly like youre pic s hit me up"