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My self-summary
We just need to cross paths ....

It has come to my attention that I need to update this to make myself a little more clear.... I know everyone says "I'm different," but let me explain that I am not the typical guy who likes sports, bars, and guns. If you want to watch football on Sundays I'm cool with that, but it just isn't my thing. l don't think a couple has to share all the same interests to be happy, it's more about the natural connection when you're together that's the most important thing.

Music and writing are my two main passions. I've been a drummer for over half of my life and I've published three collections of short fiction. I believe deeply in following your dreams and nothing else can compare to what you truly love to do. I'm always striving to better myself and become more sensitive and aware to this ever changing world that we live in.

A more recent goal of mine is to get in better shape and stay healthy. I'm by no means perfect, but it would be great to find someone who likes to go hiking, biking, et cetera ....

I'd like to find someone who is intelligent, sweet, open minded, affectionate, and adventurous. Being laid back is also very important to me as well. If you are an incessant talker, or you can't sit still for long then it probably won't work out. One of my favorite things to do is curling up on the couch with that special person to watch a movie.

Above all, I am searching for someone that I can really talk to and laugh with. With that being said, I know you cannot force a connection with someone. Either you feel something or you don't. Although I am ultimately looking for something serious, I know that takes time. No pressure! If you are on the same page as me I hope to hear from you :)

P.S. You probably won't get a response if you send something like this: "hi im jan how youdoing i relly like youre pic s hit me up"
What I’m doing with my life
Pursuing a career as a writer. My three books are collections of short stories in the vein of Poe, King, and Rod Serling. I spend a lot of time writing and traveling around the region to festivals to sell and promote my work. l'm also an employee for Amazon.
I’m really good at
skipping sections of this profile.
The first things people usually notice about me
My sexy calf muscles
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors: Poe, King, Kesey, Steinbeck, Hunter S. Thompson et cetera.... I also love biographies and historical nonfiction. Music - just about everything but I don't care much for new country or new hip-hop. Food - Mexican, lasagna and garlic bread and King Crab Legs. Movies - The Shawshank Redemption, Amadeus, the Big Lebowski, Almost Famous, A Few Good Men, Donnie Darko, all 80's John Hughes movies, The Jerk, Raising Arizona, One Flew Over the Cuckcoo's Nest, Slingblade, It's a Wonderful Life, and so many more. As for tv, I got hooked on Breaking Bad, Madmen, and more recently The Walking Dead. I also like true crime shows. Big Bang Theory and 2 and a Half Men (with Charlie) is good. I like the history channel too (fine, call me a dork)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The stories or songs spinning around inside my head. Also the future, and how I can improve and become a better person.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends or looking for something new to do. I admit that on some Fri. nights I just like to sit and chill at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a poor speller. I read and write all the time, but there is something weird about my brain when it comes to that.
You should message me if
You are sweet, intelligent, laid back, and you keep your word. No games! If you are not consistent then I won't take you seriously.
The two of us