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My self-summary
Before I get into who I am, I'm going to make my relationship clear: we're married, poly, both bi/pansexual, and interested in plurality, meaning dating others together. I'm not looking for an individual romantic relationship with anyone other than my wife, and neither is she. New platonic friendships are always welcome though; it seems to be very hard to find interesting [persons] in the plains.

I'm a twenty-six year old gainfully employed graduate with a Bachelor's Degree in Literature. I'm generally rather reserved and conservative, but am quite comfortable and outgoing in social events. I'm a very logical, analytical person, although I also am in touch with my emotions and viscerally appreciate the beauty in nature and the man-made world.

Ever since I started dating more than just one gender, I've encountered a surprising amount of concern about my orientation from many potential partners who seemed otherwise very interested. So in an attempt to dispel what seems to be the biggest concern, being attracted to more than one gender/body type doesn't mean being less capable of monogamy and commitment. If I'm in an exclusive relationship with a man I won't cheat on him with a woman because I haven't been intimate with that body type in a while (or any other reason for that matter). I'm attracted to persons, not their gender or body type; I'm just more open to persons of differing genders and body types. In short, liking more does not mean liking less exclusively.
What I’m doing with my life
I've moved to Nebraska for work about three years ago, and will be living here for the foreseeable future. I'm in the fourth year of marriage to a wonderful woman who is the love of my life and makes me happier than I could possibly imagine. We're currently enjoying home ownership, raising a puppy, and on the lookout for an additional woman to introduce into our dynamic.
I’m really good at
Writing (words and code), video games (yes, I'm a total nerd), conversing, pretending I know something about basketball, racquetball,Text formatting. Find the rest out for yourself!
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, they're a very deep blue and are my most frequently complimented feature. Intuitive persons quickly pick up on my dry wit, although it goes right over the heads of many.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Pretty much every novel still in publication that was written before 1900; I am a Literature major after all. Particularly favorite authors of mine are Jane Austen, Mark Twain, Ernest Hemingway, John Knowles, and the oddball of the bunch, Douglas Adams. I most recently read The Kingkiller Chronicles, Shadow of the Wind, Atlas Shrugged, The Night Circus, The Alchemist, and To Kill a Mockingbird for the umpteenth time.

I love all kinds of movies, although horror movies tend to bore me. Particular favorites include Sweeney Todd, Star Wars, Nothing, Serenity, The Man From Earth, Indiana Jones (NOT the newest one), everything with Emma Watson, Studio Ghibli, and so many others that just aren't coming to mind at the moment.

I don't have cable and don't watch a lot of tv, but keep up with a handful of shows via hulu and netflix, and watch old shows when I'm bored. Older favorites include Night Court, Battlestar Galactica, Seinfeld, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Arrested Development, The Muppet Show, Pinky and the Brain, Firefly, Joss Whedon Pushing Daisies, Dead Like Me, Scrubs, Mad Men, House, 30 Rock, Lie To Me, The Vampire Diaries, and True Blood (yes, I know, they're a guilty pleasure), Dawson's Creek and pretty much every other coming of age drama...ever. Newer favorites including Rick and Morty, Bob's Burgers, House of Cards, The Walking Dead, and so many others I can't think of right now.

There isn't much music I don't like, excepting most country. I enjoy classic rock, grunge, alternative, classical, hip hop, opera, folk, etc. I'm not crazy into music, but I do enjoy it quite a bit when I find the time to sit down and listen. I've gotten my feet wet swing dancing and would love to explore that and ballroom dancing (if you know of a place to learn in the Lincoln area, please let me know!).

I recently started eating meat again after a decade without it, so that's still a fascination, but breakfast and Italian remain among my favorite foods. Over the past few years I've become increasingly addicted to food from all areas of Asia, with sushi being the standout favorite. Japanese, Indian, Thai, and Korean all offer incredibly delicious meatless meals and are my favorite restaurants to eat out at. I'm on a healthy eating kick at the moment and enjoying the healthier foods; you know, green stuff.
Six things I could never do without
Everything else, I've discovered, is not essential in the least as long as I have her.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How he managed to run from Reno to a cave up in the hills of Utah in a night and a half. Also, Philosophy. I can debate philosophy for hours.
On a typical Friday night I am
Going to the movies and the local diner or pizzeria with my friends, or going out for dinner and a late-night stroll through downtown or the countryside with someone special, if I'm lucky.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a thing for the androgynous form. This is neither an exclusive attraction nor the main thing I look for in a partner, but it's nice when it's present.

I am also involved with power exchange. Inquire within.
You should message me if
You're interested in me for more than just sex, you're on the market for a terrible dance partner, or you just have a pressing need to talk to me. You should also understand that I'm in a committed relationship and that anything romantic or sexual involving me will involve her as well.

You probably shouldn't waste your time if your conversation starter is "hey" or if you haven't bothered to read through at least enough of this profile to know that much.
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