36Jacksonville, United States
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My self-summary
At some point I became all to aware of the finite nature of the human existences and decided if I were not enjoying it, it was not worth it. I am silly and goofy and take only the most serious things serious at all. I gravitate towards people and things that make me laugh. On any given day, I can find more than a dozen legitimate reasons to smile. I count my blessings always remembering that I have many more than I have ever deserved.

My family is my most significant blessing, followed very closely by my friends. They love me in spite of myself and I will not ever allow them to not be a part of my life.

I love sports, watching and participating. Baseball may be my favorite. I wouldn't mind someone who wouldn't mind maybe playing some hoops or tennis together. Billiards and Bowling are fun too, even though I am not really good either. Sometimes is also fun to relax with a good friends and play board games or comple some puzzles.

This might be getting a little longer than a "summary"

Oh...SLEEPING....nothing to say about it other than it is something I enjoy and should be considered an interest. although it is hard to come by.

I am decent, goofy, and quirky
What I’m doing with my life
Honestly, I cannot say that I am doing anything other than pursuiting the next "happy moment." I do find that I am developing the kind of goals that I have not had since my early 20's but I haven't clear objectives yet. For the mean time, I work my daily 8 hours and then immerse myself in the things that make me feel good.

Wish I had a better answer.
I’m really good at
I am very good at helping others realize their dream. My dream job might be the "Dream helper" but I haven't seen that advertised in the newspaper.

I am a very good listener. Or at least people I know are very good at talking.

I have to ask around to see if I am good at anything else. I don't really sit around thinking about myself and saying, "Darn, I am good." Wouldn't that be kinda conceited.
The first things people usually notice about me
My size. I am kinda a big guy. Not freakishly huge or the size of a guy one might be afraid is going to fall on them. Just kinda big.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Have no idea. Haven't read a book since high school. I read a lot of articles on various subjects though. If you add them all up you probably have several books.

Rarely watch movies. 90 mins was too long and not many movies are 120mins and up...bleh!! Although there as some movies I enjoy, but they are mostly quirky and independent kind of flicks.

My taste in music are all over the place. I spent all morning with synth-heavy music from the 80's and this afternoon listening to Sevendust.Red Hot Chili Peppers, Adele, Ben Harper, John Legend, Sara Bareilles, Blu & Exile, Johnson&Jonson, Jack Johnson, Kate Nash, Duffy, Lily Allen, Dispatch, Keb' Mo', Ray LaMontagne, Black Star, Prince, Blackalicious and Murs have also all been in heavy rotation in recent weeks.
Six things I could never do without
1. My faith. I am not a regular church goer but I view my world through my faith. I see God's hand in many things. My hope for humanity and the world lies entirely in my faith. My ability to get up and face the world daily lies in my faith too.

2. My family and friends. Simply put, THEY ROCK!! People spend their entire lives looking for the unconditional love they have given me so freely.

3. My cell phone. Not because it connects me to anyone, but it has all of my entertainment on it. I spend all too much time clicking away on it.

4. My imagination. I can be lost in "there" for hours.

5. My music. Not only is it one of the reasons I need my cell phone, there is frequently a song in my head. The right song can completely change a day.

6. Lists. I love listing things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Germs, family, friends, my faith, the location of my cell phone, the location of my keys, how my various gadgets work, women, world peace, french fries, cake, recees' peanut-butter cups, catapults, ferraris, soup, Space Ghost, Gate fountain drinks, paper planes, geese, snow(because we never get any), music, shrimp, paint, vinegar-and-baking-soda volcanos, the sun...and many many many more.
On a typical Friday night I am
Home or somewhere with some family member.

Never been much of a Friday night date picks...I've always been more of a Thursday nighter.
You should message me if
...you can type.
...you think I am worth it
...you like yourself, at least enough not to change just for someone else.
...you think you are funny.
...you are curious about me.
...you are bored
...you understand that this list is to be continued.
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