JahiFire
33Oakland, United States
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My self-summary
Sun: Leo cusp Cancer
Rising: Cancer
Moon: Gemini
Mars: Scorpio

I'm a kind soul who's done with childish mind games. I'm currently detoxing from a toxic relationship full of half truths, lies by omission, constantly moving goalposts, a total rebellion toward being a responsible, accountable adult.

I relate most with Lao Tzu: society is completely oximoronic, people ask questions but don't care to hear a real answer. Quick & short has become acceptable at the cost of free thought & discipline of will. Makes me want to find a cave & live with animals that still listen to the rhythms of our mother & themselves.

I believe in Wu Wei: the principal of 'Do Nothing'. Aka do all that you can do, while maintaining a balance of spirit, emotion, & bodily health while staying focused on a well thought through goal (or goals); and life will conspire for you and maneuver opportunities into your path. Aka fuck the shit that's outside your control. Be aware, but don't waste needless energy on 'what ifs' & ' if onlys'. Aka Fuck it. You do you & I'll do me. If that works well together, then hot damn. And it's ok if/when it ends. It was fun while it lasted.

P.S. I like to start conversations simply. Like, "Hi." You know, just like we would if we met in person. Though sometimes I get goofy ,-)
This idea of having to entertain you from the first message feels very pretentious & fake. I'm not trying to be your play thing (unless we come to an agreement), I'm trying to interact with a soul bearing human being. I hope you are too.
What I’m doing with my life
Putting the pieces back together so I can strive towards my best, father my children so they're not overwhelmed by this conundrum of a rat race we find ourselves in, and continue creating the dreams of my life
I’m really good at
Reading out loud
Navigation
Cuddling
Listening
Massage/Energy Work
Logistics
Puzzles & Games
Cunilingus
Cooking
Being where I'm needed
Sex
Saying what needs to be said
Fucking the bullshit
Being my fiery self '-)
The first things people usually notice about me
Eye contact

I'm more interested in what you notice
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Dune
Movies: Kung Fury
Shows: Mr. Robot/Parks & Rec/GoT
Music: Daft Punk
Food: Green Chile Pot Pie
Six things I could never do without
Conscious Human Touch
Stories of Life & Ways
Fluid Movement
Tao
Harmonious Vibration
Tough Love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Human Motivation & Discipline
Quantum Reality
Stories & Myths of our past & present
Glimpses of the fluid future
How to manifest what I dream
Bodily adventures
Screenplay ideas
Standup comedy routines
Being a father
Etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Life
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a cancer survivor @ 2.5yo
You should message me if
You fly your own flag with a respect for others flags as well!

You strive to be self-reflective & honest in your dealings.

You understand and respect the time delay of LIFE.

You have goals your working toward.

You'd like to snuggle into the new season of GoT.

You understand that my kids, my health, my goals are my priority. Our time is bonus!

You understand that you're life is nobody's responsibility but your own & you own that shit!
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