Who am I? I'm Batman.
Not really. I am Jasen. A Tall Dark and Hansen kind of guy.
There are really only 3 things that you need to know me. You can think of them as rules that I live by but the reality is that they are descriptions of behaviors I have always had.
1. I do not lie. This extends to cheating and stealing. I respect myself and others enough to tell them the truth as I understand it. I have been called pathologically honest and I may not be the person to ask, "Do these jeans make my ass look fat?"
2. I always require permission. I will not intrude in peoples space and I do not presume to know their mind. Sadly this means I do not often initiate a first kiss. I knave to know that you want it.
3. I do not interfere with relationships. When I was a puppy I thought that the only relations were monogamous. That was naive and limiting. I have since come to realize that a relationship is what you define it to be. As long as you and your partner(s) agree on the terms and follow them than I wish you well and happiness. It is not on me to judge or define your rules.
All of these rules reduce to the concept of respect. I believe in it and I follow my beliefs.
Now, more about me if you want to know :)
I enjoy entertainments but I am a quiet person. An introvert that needs recharge time occasionally.
I enjoy personal interactions with small groups. Groups where everyone can participate and contribute.
I am not a fan of clubs. If I have to shout in your ear just so you can understand what I am saying ... that is not for me.
What I value is time and attention. No, I am not saying that I need to be the center of attention. I am saying that I value when people go out of there way to interact with me. Or that they want my time. That desire shows importance. When I spend time with someone that is what I am offering them. I like the same in return.
There are a lot of activities that I want to spend more time in but they tend to be partnered activities such as dance lessons. So maybe I can find a partner here. Interested?
Music is even more diverse. I can be listening to Linkin Park one min, Garth Brooks the next and than jump to White Zombie. I tend to like individual songs, not types of music.
What I crave is affection, cuddles, conversation, silence, warmth and pleasant sensations.