28Saint Charles, United States
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My self-summary
To start off, I don't date casually; I like to get to know somebody first, be friends and if I feel like we could work out, go from there. I know many of you aren't looking for another guy friend and don't want to wait for a relationship, I ask you to move on as I will not promise to be more than A friend.

If you want the normal this is me and what I do summary scroll to below the line.

I don't do "what ifs," if something looks fun or interesting I do it, I make a decision and I don't look back, and if I see an adventure I take it. I talk to strangers, wander down dark alleys, and take any excuse to learn anything new.
I use sarcasm liberally and live my life by "Always Look at the Bright Side of Life" from the Life of Brian. Everything has a joke in it somewhere and I intend to find it, especially in myself. (I find myself to be a very good joke)
I like to discuss anything and everything so long as the other person will also keep a clear head about it and pride myself on being sway-able with good arguments and willing to be wrong. Heck I will argue contrary what I believe when I want to make sure that I understand both sides.

On Grammar: I'm more worried about getting my own two/too/to, your/you're, then/than right than I am about you getting your grammar right too; I use semicolons because I can.

I like kids and feel that the secret to being good with them is keeping your inner child on call. My inner child likes to ask why, he helps me look at problems and new situations from odd angles, and helps me let loose and enjoy life.

What ever I am I come by honestly; I don't feel like I can adequately explain all that I am and so leave that to you to come up with your own idea.

I administrate at a college and enjoy it; knowing I help make it possible for people to better themselves. I am loyal to my friends and family, enjoy life, and like to fell helpful. I believe that most people are inherently good, most things are worth experiencing once, and that if I am honest with people they will be with me.
I ride a Triumph Scrambler (motorcycle) as much as I can get away with and drive a Jeep Wrangler.
I swing dance, square dance, and dance when nobody is watching.
I love reading about history; my favorite parts are 1920s-1940s American, and the Huns who were not the barbarians they are made out to be.
I like to explore new parts of the city, there is always something going on if you know where to look
I have a boarder collie I adopted, his name is Rex and I think he is learning my personality.
What I’m doing with my life
Finding new stories.
I’m really good at
Story telling
Stumbling around into people
The first things people usually notice about me
My smirk, I always see the joke, even if is on me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book: The Way of Kings, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, A Song of Ice and Fire, The Richard Sharpe Books, Robert Heinlein, Asimov, Mark Twain, Lord Byron, Niel Gaiman, and about anything else I can get my hands on.

Shows: I don't bother with cable, not enough on that I would pay to watch. I have liked Firefly, Sherlock, Game of Thrones and How its made.

Music: I like listening to Ska, 80s rock, bluegrass, Jazz, Classical, Metal, rock-a-billy. I enjoy singing mostly folk style music as I can easily toss in new words and twist the melody as suits me.

Food: Rhubarb Pie, other than that I get tired of sweet fairly quickly.
Six things I could never do without
1) a good pair of shoes for walking
2) Friends/Family
3) My dog
4) a towel
5) a good book
6) motorcycle
I spend a lot of time thinking about
People I have met, the stories they had. I want to travel some more and collect stories from strangers. Creating new stories of my own.

Whats over there?

How can I do something better?

Lunch(at least once a day is a lot of time)
On a typical Friday night I am
Reading, at a show, or with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I would wear a kilt daily if work would allow.
You should message me if
I seem interesting and you want to chat; worst case, You end up with a new friend, probably more as I like to introduce friends to each other.
The two of us