Firstly - There are time's where I could be the nicest guy you ever meet - and then there are times where I am just the most blunt - harsh person ever. But that's who I am.
A lot of people come to me for help - and when I help them I don't tell them what they expect to hear- I tell them what they NEED.
The thing that bothers me enormously about sites like this is that there are a lot of guys on here - and majority of them are assholes.
Yes - I can be perceived that way - but at the end of the day - i'm still a hopeless romantic with morals, and gentlemanly conduct.
I still hold doors for women.
I still drive to pick up a girlfriend (when I have one)
I still talk with proper grammar.
I do things not many guys can say they've done.... (Like go out of the country.. and still try to impress a girl.. If you wanna know that story ask)
My hobbies have changed over the years. When I was in high school a couple of years ago i wouldn't go out much. As I got older - I started developing a much more outgoing friendship with my best friend (lets just call him "J" for now). One of the hobbies that has changed is the fact that I started smoking a couple of years ago.
No nothing bad.
I started smoking Hookah two years ago. Over the years, my collection of hookahs has grown quite extensively. On a typical night now a days - I either smoke with friends - or sometimes smoke alone.
It's quite hard for me to meet new people - let alone find someone to have in a relationship because when i was younger i was bullied - so it hurt my self esteem a bit. However as time went on - i've become more open to trying to make new friendships with people and see where they develop.
Many people probably get my messages and just delete them because they're not "interesting" or you see them as "boring". In reality, you'd classify it as "how every typical message from a guy is" But the only reason why I still message women with "Hello! how are you" or "Good afternoon" or something like "i hope to have the pleasure of talking to you" is because i believe that good manners are slowly dwindling away. With the respect, and morals my father has brought me up with - i don't find that acceptable at all.
For those that haven't figured it out by now. My name is Jason. I'm 21 years old. I'm single, straight, but don't mind anyone who is anything else. I'm a very serious person because of the life experiences i have been through. I am gentlemanly (at least i'd like to think so). When I am mad - sometimes I don't have a filter on what I say. I do say sweet things. I am a nice person once we get passed the awkward "meeting stage" and it would be my pleasure to talk to a lot of you on this site.
Thank you for reading this if you did!
Besides school - I updated my career for the time being. Instead of two jobs - trying to make ends meet. I now have one. Which at the current time is still barely making ends meet. but in the long run - I'll finally have some money saved up.
As i said in the about me part. I am a smoker. When i first started - I used to smoke maybe once or twice a week. Now it's depending on a good or bad week. But at least 4 times. (thankfully Hookah doesn't leave a bad taste in your mouth or an annoying shitty smell on your clothes. I hate cigarettes.) It would be nice to try and find someone consistent to smoke with. A new friend - perhaps. Because I grow tired of smoking with no one to talk to.
On top of all that - I do help around my house. Clean, Laundry, all the basics that come with it. It's not that big of a chore load. I mainly help out so my dad doesn't have to do as much as he did a couple of years ago.
For one. I still play video games - and I like to consider myself good at them. And for those curious - I DO STILL PLAY POKEMON. and I love it. I have played a lot of pokemon games, and I still play Y.
I love racing games - because I'm a car guy - and for some reason have a natural hand at racing games once i learn the controls.
This part has to be put here - because i have acquired a nice skill of it.
- Setting up my hookahs to smoke delightfully no matter what time it is.. Hahaha.
I'm good at helping people
- Over the years i have been through a lot in my life and it has broadened my capacity of knowledge. It has opened my eyes to many things that i would've never noticed before.
I'm good at listening.
- I don't care what time it is. If a friend calls me. or hell, even someone I just met and they're upset. I'll listen. No matter the time.
I'm good at trying to make people laugh with my stupidity and unusual ways. Hah
I'm good at being peoples friend.
- If someone gives me a fair effort at being their friend - I will say that they won't be disappointed with what they see. I like to believe that i am a good friend because of how i treat people.
The worn out fashion sense (of cargo pants that i still wear) but am changing!
The color of my eyes (surprisingly a lot of people like my eyes)
My iPhone - i love having my iPhone.
My music - music is my solitude and my state of mind. it has helped me many a time
My car - self explanatory
My friends - self explanatory
If I have plans - I go out till the wee hours of the morning with some friends and enjoy my time.
If I don't have plans - I clean my room a bit. I walk around shirtless at home.. Cause ya know. it's just fun. I game on either my Computer, X-Box, or PS3 for that matter. I enjoy gaming. Especially racing games.
If i'm not doing any of that. I'm most likely in bed trying to sleep. Hahahaha
You think that something I have said on my profile is interesting.
You would like to talk to someone that knows a lot of what he's saying and doesn't mind saying things how they are.
You would like a new friend who treats people respectfully.
or - You just want to chat. Maybe if i'm lucky - after the chat - you see that I'm not so bad haha