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My self-summary
"I love you and think ur amazing and like u cuz ur smart, funny, kinda an asshole sometimes, cute, thoughtful, sweet, plant lover who put morning Glories in his windows, and above all a sweet sweet man." - Clara, on the event of an unfortunately repetitious breakup with N.

"I still can't decide if you're dumb as fuck, or romantic." - Kara, from a mud hut in Burkina Faso while a cat that I sent to bug her (she says) mews loudly outside her window.
What I’m doing with my life
Making plants grow. Helping kids do their homework. Coaching debate. Writing. Wasting time watching crap on the internet when I should be writing. Playing ukulele. Communing with random cats - sometimes internationally and psychic-ly, maybe. Saving the lives of spiders who wander into my vicinity, against my better judgment.
I’m really good at
Here's a list of things:

The sun
Fire flies
Lightning storms
The feeling just before lightning storms when the pressure drops and you're like, Ahhh
The ocean
The Life Aquatic
Seu Jorge's portuguese david bowie covers
The color blue
Bill murray
Purple orchids
Green eyes
Pretty sad things
Welcome to Nightvale
Spicy food
Coconut shampoo (not on me)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Here's a list of albums that have influenced my life:

Orange Rhyming Dictionary
Siamese Dream
In the Aeroplane Over the Sea
Feel Good Lost
13 Tales From Urban Bohemia
Surfer Rosa
Exile on Main Street
LA Woman

More later...
Six things I could never do without
Sometimes I think the only thing that grounds me to the world is my dog Asha. Her name means hope in Hindi, and is also the name of a famous Bhaliwood actress. She does not like everyone, And I'm starting to think I should trust her instincts more.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Shit, where are my keys!
Things I am/should be writing
On a typical Friday night I am
Ideally, live music with someone special. I can't think of a better way to spend a night.

But game for whatever!
You should message me if
You want to help me figure out if this life is real and what that would even mean.


Washed Out dj set Dec 5th, you wanna come?


A serious note: the Internet is a shitty place for women. This site is not an exception. I'm sure its rough getting overwhelmed with messages from creepy people you don't know. As an introvert I'd probably hate it. But its also no fun to type long thoughtful messages that get ignored, so here's the compromise I've come up with. I'm gonna send you a short, but always personal message if I'm interested. If you are too, respond and we can talk at length about bands and books and kombucha and our pets :) OR if you want to just cut through this whole awful Gordian knot, you can message me and if I'm interested I'll respond with something thoughtful. I'm as weirded out by this whole online thing as you are, and I promise I'm not even capable of being creepy anonymously...only with my friends haha
The two of us