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My self-summary
Let me start by saying I don't Check OKC unless I have a notification of a message, that being said I won't know you stalked my page until sometimes months later. So message if you want to chat. My name is Joe, some choose to call me Rooster. ( It's a funny and perverted story but that is for a personal discussion). I read profusely and talk just as much. Nothing is better to me for fun with friends then coffee and conversation. I am in a poly/ open relationship. This is something a friend or a lover has to be OK with. This is an openness I share in full faith.

I am stubborn as hell,(blame my mother) though on many things I just don't care what people do and say.

I am a smoker and will not quit because you want me to! I will not quit until I want to for myself, which isn't anytime soon. I don't care if you smoke or not. I have No problem with drinking as I believe strongly that everything should be handled in moderation.( hint MODERATION is the key word!). Even Sober, you can have fun people.

I have no clue what else to say so I must contain my thoughts to later discussion. Which of course I am more than willing to have. Just message me.

I am Oxymoronic, Poetic, and Macabre
What I’m doing with my life
I work for the Federal Government.

I also run a small business. I do readings per tradition, and find it rewarding. I've been doing Tarot, crystal ball and palmistry readings since I was a small child.
I’m really good at
Grandma always said "If you can't be good, be good at it!" I'd like to think I'm the best at what i do. I honestly would prefer if you made your own judgments on what I am and am not good at.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes and smile. I don't know you tell me! I'm almost always wearing my sunglasses and my hats, long blonde hair and a devilish grin.

I've recently been told I have a deep sexy voice by like ten people. Most of whom were random as hell. For example, please read journal entry "Gay Guy and the Black Pussy". Also been told the only two ways most figure me to be gay is my smile and my grace....I don't understand either points. I suppose when four friends agree and then random strangers on the forum mention these things....kinda have to admit that its true. Damn my effulgent smile!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

Anne Rice, Stephen King, Dean Koontz, Augustin Burroughs, Fahrenheit 451, most things Shakespeare, Socrates,The Great Gatsby, Great Expectations,1984, Dune series, Alice In Wonder Land, A Clockwork Orange, George R. R. Martin Paradise Lost, The Inferno, If I should Die Before I Wake, Speak, Le Mort, Faust, Dan Brown, Oscar Wilde, Thomas Harris (the Hannibal Lecter Quartet), Good Omens, Jack London, and yes Harry Potter too. amongst many many others. Mainly Sci-fi, fictional history, Psychological Suspense/Thriller, Fantasy, and Horror


Everything! I really like Miles Davis, Billie Holiday, The Supremes, the Beatles, Joplin and Hendrix, Queen, David Bowie, M. Jackson, along with Big Band, NIN, Korn, Metallica, My Chemical Romance, Nirvana, Gregorian Chant, Musicals, Classical, Inva Mula, Opera, and most contemporary media music, though I'm always looking for the new sound I just cant get enough of. When I need to vent or get worked up its angry hevey metal and alternitive, when I want to mellow its Soft and Slow and soulful and usually goes with slow dancing and a bottle of wine.


One flew Over the Coo-Coo's Nest, Batman, The Shining, IT, Clock work orange, labyrinth, Mulon Rouge, Dorian Grey, Coffee Date, Hedwig and the angry inch. Romeo and Juliet, The Crucible, Skeleton Key, Trick or Treat, Nightmare Before Christmas, Fried Green Tomatoes, The Color Purple, Monty Pythons Holy Grail, Starwars, Star Trek, Sweeny Todd, and many many others. in fact think of most half way decent movies you've seen and I PROBABLY liked them. I love indie films and obscure french films like 8 femmes. I spend most of my time spent watching T.V. watching the sundance and IFC and enjoying The History Channel, and Chiller a bit. Add Law and Order SVU, family guy, Histories Mysteries, and Masters Of Horror, BBC World News, and Doctor Who


I'm Sicilian and German and raised by a black southern woman, so all three and toss in Chinese, Japanese,Thai, Mexican and French.
Six things I could never do without
love of all sorts, cigarettes, coffee, faith, self expression...and a good book. Could Never get too many good books.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why is it that the common phrase "The best ones are taken or gay" does not apply to those who are gay and looking? It seems to me the gay version is "the best ones are taken or breeders"...
And Who really did let the dogs out? Mr.Burns?
Why are Americans so backwards....having been raised here, why do I feel more at home in Europe?
On a typical Friday night I am
At the movies and getting sushi. Or out to Starlite for coffee with friends. One can never have too much Coffee and conversation...until you run out of smokes and have to run to the store...but then you come back for more coffee! :-D
THAT, or off having a random adventure which I must have at least once a month or my Romani blood starts to get restless.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I got a pickle, I got pickle, hey hey hey hey, I got pickle.
You should message me if
You've read this far and found things you liked and would wish to strike up a conversation. If you are convinced I am more then I seem, or if you have questions about the things I have mentioned here. And I love to learn random things, so that is always an interesting way to get my attention. Also, if you can tell me the Importance of 42. That would be most awesome.

* admendment* you can have a REAL conversation. and are not afraid of religion, history, politics, world afairs or sex. Intelligence is a turn on people, and if a man can hold himself in conversation and in conviction he's a man I want to know.*

OH... and you don't think Vampires should sparkle like some glitter covered pixie.
The two of us