JeffCambridge
58 Cambridge, United States
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My self-summary
I'm an ENFP on the Myers Briggs, which means that I tend to be the last one to show up at a party, as well as the last one to leave. I'm enthusiastic and an extrovert. I wear my heart on my sleeve and am pretty much an open book.

I tend to be attracted to introverts, but to be honest, that has created some challenges in my relationships. I can be just getting geared up in the evening when they're wanting to wind down.

I have several close friends, including former boyfriends.

I love to cook and feed people - and make mealtime special. Nothing makes me happier than seeing my boyfriend enjoy eating something I've made. What can I say, I'm Italian.

In fact, I'm an Italian citizen - I have dual citizenship - and one of my greatest accomplishments is having tracked down relatives in Italy and Sicily that we had lost contact with for a long time.

I'm very close to my family, and still haven't given up on the possibility of adopting children. I want to make lasagna for a house full of people! In the meantime, I'm considering housing and feeding students who are studying abroad. I would love that.
I call my mom in Ohio (that's where I grew up) when I am cooking so that she can walk me through her way of making things. My dad died about 5 years ago.

I love to travel, and I'm also a homebody.

I have ADD, which makes me easily distractible, but also energetic, smart and a lot of fun.

I like being active - playing sports and spending time outdoors. I love Walden Pond and the beach.

I'm a musical theater fan. Saw Next to Normal three times and cried through it each time.

Relationships and meaningful work - along with exercise, yoga, healthy food, an optimistic attitude, a sense of humor and a good night's sleep - are the ingredients for a happy life, and those are my priorities.

Look forward to hearing from you!

I am outgoing, enthusiastic, and fun
What I’m doing with my life
for fun:
Yoga, swimming, Walden Pond, traveling, movies, trips to Rehoboth Beach, cooking, board games, cards, theater, genealogy, time with family and friends, Words with Friends, pinochle and bridge

my job:
I love what I do for work. Most of it relates to education and psychology. Mainly I work with schools to make them better places for LGBTQ students. I've also taught college courses in psychology and advised students for several years.

my education:
I went to Northwestern University in Evanston, Illinois, for undergrad - then University of California at Santa Barbara (UCSB) for graduate school - and Harvard Grad School of Education after that.
I’m really good at
meeting people, telling a story, laughing at myself
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile and my energy
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Theater: Next to Normal, Sunday in the Park with George, Cat on a Hot Tin Roof, Death of a Salesman, Is There Life After High School?, Follies, Merrily We Roll Along, Chamber Music
Books: Maurice, Howards End, Pride and Prejudice, Frog and Toad
Movies: Ordinary People, Norma Rae, All About My Mother, Harold and Maude, Perks of Being a Wallflower, Once, His Secret Life, Undertow
Music: Nina Simone, Rickie Lee Jones, Barbara Cook, Bruce Springsteen, Red Molly, Sam Smith, musical theater
Food: Italian, Seafood and anything ethnic, Life Alive
Cafes: Three Little Figs, 1369
The six things I could never do without
friends, family, yoga, Greek yogurt, Ziplock bags, humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
having a meaningful life
On a typical Friday night I am
making dinner
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't let go of things or people easily.
You should message me if
"Only connect..." - E.M. Forster
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