JeffForYou
54Berlin, United States
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My self-summary
Please be real. Be honest. And be kind.

Love music. I mean really love music. You count the days until your next show, and would not think twice about driving cross-country to see a show (which I'm about to do)

At this point I'm just completely confused as to why this site doesn't match me with anyone even remotely compatible or aligned with my preferences. I know....it's free. I shouldn't complain. I wish I could just check: Nice Gal, Lives Close, Not Crazy, Emotionally Available. I'm being greedy, right?

I'm very young at heart and looking for the same. A game or movie on TV is great, but I prefer to be out and about. Meeting for coffee or drink with no pressure is always a great place to start.

As for me....I'm a Dad to two wonderful boys, one young adult on his own and one in high school. I have many interests but no unhealthy obsessions. I'm a great cook (culinary school grad),. I work extremely hard but have a very flexible schedule. I don't take myself too seriously, and I'm not drawn to those who do.

I think my best years are ahead, and I want to find someone who wants to share the adventure with me

At this point in our lives, we both know what we want. Physical attraction is as important as ever, but we want more too. I'm hoping to meet a woman who shares my interests but will teach me about hers. She has kids and will enjoy mine. She doesn't want a man with lots of toys, but does want a man with depth of character. She doesn't judge a man by his material possessions, but on his kindness, honesty and personality. She loves my sense of humor. She has diverse interests and has a zest for learning.

I'm sure that none of us ever expected to be online looking for a partner at this point in our lives. But let's embrace this opportunity and enjoy the experience!

If you like what you've read, and you think we'd click, please drop me a note. I'd love to hear from you.

If you're out of state, or live too far away for us to step away from what we're doing for a cup of coffee and a kiss, it's just not realistic to try and connect.

Let's exchange some notes, emails or texts. Have coffee or a drink. Take a risk. Have some fun!
What I’m doing with my life
Being a Dad
Listening to music
Seeing live music
Traveling
Helping others
Looking for you
I’m really good at
Making you smile
Making you laugh
Cooking (Culinary School Grad)
Helping others understand their greatness
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and sense of humor
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Too many to list...

Maybe we can share our favorites?
Six things I could never do without
My kids
Books
Music/Music Festivals
Food
Air
Water

Sorry...just not sure how this question will help you decide if you want to meet me....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to ensure my obituary has meaning

and....

If there is anyone on these dating sites that is emotionally available and willing to put the work into a healthy, grown-up relationship....and if they're not, just be honest about wanting to hang out and have fun
On a typical Friday night I am
Blah, blah, blah...there is no typical Friday night...
I'm at home
I'm out with [fill in the blank]
Relaxing

Pick one...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Again...who really gives a rat's ass
You should message me if
....You want to meet someone different than the others, who will treat you with respect and kindness. Who is loyal, honest, and doesn't give a crap what other people think.

Again, this doesn't really matter. I write to woman, they don't write back....you write to me, and I don't write back. Who are we kidding? Message me if you want to know what it's like to meet someone who's not full of shit. It's just that simple.
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