I also play synth in a lady fronted shoegaze band, but we pointedly don't book shows. It's more like group therapy mixed with a conflict resolution seminar.
Movies- PTA, Noah Baumbach, Jodorowsky, Whit Stillman, Kathryn Bigelow, Miranda July,
Music- Lots of shoegaze & 70s country. Supporting local bands is a must! Twin Sister, Patsy Cline, Slayer, Angel Olsen, Father John Misty, Courtney Barnett, Mitski, etc..
Food- I think Oyster bar happy hour could be my new religion & yes, I don't have to taste it before realizing it needs hot sauce.
TV- X-Files, Adam Curtis, Mighty Boosh? TV generally makes me feel guilty, but I got to go to a writer's room the last time I was in LA & I'm very jealous of their snack situation. There was a wall of La Croix that rivaled Whole Foods'
Sketchbook & pen