44 Santa Monica, United States
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My self-summary
Welcome to Jesse's profile! Here are a few things that I am working on right now:
- listening with presence, compassion and patience during times when it is difficult or I am feeling stubborn.
- putting myself in other people's shoes before making any judgements.
- practicing self care, patience and having fun with my process.

Here is what I believe:
- the future of the planet is in our hands now more than ever and I try to do my part to make it a better place to live.
- we get the love we give.
- everyone has a gift to share.
- beauty is everywhere.

P.s. I live in Lake Hughes during the week for work and live in Santa Monica on the weekends.

P.p.s. I am comfortable/happy being a man and all that it comes with. I have a healthy, optimistic and pro-active outlook on life and take the time to enjoy life's simple moments and appreciate great people. This journey of life is amazing, beautiful and imaginably strange...having someone to share the journey with is priceless. May we all find the love we deserve from within ourselves first and then from the ones we love
What I’m doing with my life
I have spent the last 2 years working on solar power plants in the Central and Antelope Valleys. Before that, I was managing the construction of a 250 MW solar power plant on a Native American Indian Reservation just North of Las Vegas. I spent most of my past life in Architecture and real estate development building office parks and high rise condos. I learned a lot about my intellectual and emotional strengths, how I want to focus my strengths and decided to use my super powers to collaborate with amazing/inspired people in this amazing world we live in. I like to spend my free time fly fishing, backpacking, hot springs, river rafting, snowboarding, art galleries/museums, Sunday farmer's markets, unique restaurants and music festivals.
I’m really good at
-Building and fixing things
-Admitting that I am wrong
-Body rubs
-Appreciating the beauty of life
The first things people usually notice about me
-Blue eyes
-Warm smile
-Strong physique
-Grounded sense of self
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
-Sunday N.Y. Times
-The Economist
-Self improvement books
-Travel books
-Afro Beat
-Funk and old soul
-KCRW Eclectic24
-Using the grilled leftovers in a Sunday morning frittata.
The six things I could never do without
-Authentic vulnerability and radical gratitude.
-Compassion, tenderness and patience with myself and people I meet.
-Laugh out loud laughter!
-Cooking meals with family/friends
-Yoga and Hot springs
-Tea tree chapstick/kombucha/Yerba matte tea
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-How I can positively contribute to my surroundings.
-Planning my next adventure!
-The little things that make life sweet.
On a typical Friday night I am
Going to bed early for Saturday adventures. Packing the truck for my next adventure. Meeting up with friends for dinner, live music and dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I cry easily during really really sad movies...
You should message me if
Anything I said resonates with you and makes you go "Hmmmmm"....