I am back from my summer adventures and settling in for the winter. I am looking for some yoga pals, playmates, cuddlers and fuck buddies. I don't have a particular type, I am mostly looking for connection. my partners have ranged from 21-59 in the last few years. All have been independent, self aware and kinky. I like creative adventurous types and it seems my younger partners tend to be in the gender fluid, queer spectrum.
I am unconventional, I took a hard left from the mainstream a long time ago, by that I don't mean, my furniture choices. If you check my instagram, you will find indication of a person who is handy, crafty and involved.
I like to make stuff and do things. I learn new things all the time and answer my questions. I have lots of interests and I value the time it takes to investigate them.
I am not looking for someone to mirror or complete me. I am looking for someone who is their own unique self and shares some of my values. I want to find someone who wants to spend their time with me but recognizes neither of us can give the other everything they need or want. I am open to something long term with a patient committed person.
I stay fit, I like to get to the gym, ride my bike and walk places. I am looking for people that value the same. Someone who prompted me to yoga class would be amazing, in return I'll sit with you and meditate.
I should also say that I identify as non-monogamous, not because I need to sling my dick around all over the place. The opposite is true, I like to be loyal. I can't deal with the ownership, possessiveness and jealousy that comes with the popular notion of monogamy that we are enculturated with.
I can be casual, sex isn't a big deal to me. I do recognize that when you care about someone that connection makes it amazing. My preference is to put my energy into that. Of course you never know where you'll find that connection so you have to try...right?
Full disclosure, I am a kinky fucker, tiny bit switchy top. If you are the kind of lady that likes marks left on the body, i would happily leave them there :-) I like rope, sensation and rough body play. I have been described as sweetly hurty. I place a high value on consent, communication and connection.
Current projects are pretty varied, i will be working on creating a small community garden over the winter, building some rideable art bikes and continuing to make a toys for a certain adult niche martket ;-)
I live an alternative lifestyle and avoid the mainstream. So I don't own condo or have a car payment.
helping other people make things.
I like music that is not on the radio, i really enjoy electronic music and listen to mixes whenever I am focusing on my work.
I like to cook and enjoy fresh simple foods when dining out.
prepping to get up early,