39 Bloomingdale, United States
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My self-summary
I am trying this online dating thing with the intention to be fully honest and open and hope that everyone else is doing the same. I don’t want to play games or lie and say I am something I am not. I don’t want to post pictures from 10 years ago in the hopes that I can fool you when I meet you… I hope that everyone else is doing the same! I am also one of those people that feels that there is either a spark or there isn’t. If there isn’t a spark/connection in the first time I meet someone I know that it won’t come in time. The connection doesn’t have to be physical but there has to be something. That feeling that you don’t want the night to end or that you can’t wait to see the person again. That being said I don’t plan to chat, IM, Text for months to end up meeting and finding out the spark isn’t there. My plan is to chat a bit, see if the fundamentals are there and then try and meet for a drink, something along those lines and see if there is any spark and then go from there. There is no point in wasting time and I am ok if I feel the connection and the other person doesn’t as long as they tell me that. Life is short and I do believe the right person is out there.. for everyone. I am not sure if this site will lead me to that person but you never know what could happen.

One big thing.. I have two dogs. Labs, and they are the loves of my life. Payton and Jordan... can you guess I am a full blown sports fan. Love the Bears.. Love the Cubs.. but I am ok if the Sox win as long as they are NOT playing the cubs. Big thing though.. if you dont like dogs then I will not be right for you. if you do like dogs and I have not scared you away yet then you know how to message me! :)
What I’m doing with my life
I am not sure what I am doing with my life.. I work, probably too much but I love what I do. I have been with the same company for 8 years and really enjoy my days. Sometimes I wish there was no such thing as remote access so that when I left the office I couldnt log back in but I am the only one to blame for that. Long term my one thing I want that I dont have is a lake house. I would really like to own a place to go away on weekends, have family and friends come up etc. Hopefully within the next 5 years I can find a place.
I’m really good at
Caring about people to a fault...
Making people laugh..
Finding the positive in most bad situations..
The first things people usually notice about me
Probaby my legs. .. but if we meet maybe you can tell me. I have never asked anyone this so I may need some feedback.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I hate to even admit this but I did just read Fifty Shades of Gray. I just had to see for myself what it was all about. I pickd it up on a Saturday morning and finished it that day. TV Shows, I shouldnt admit any of these but I like Big Brother, Jersey Shore, BH Nannies, Game of Thrones, Dexter, 30 Rock is one of my favorites. Music- all over the place on this. Used to hate country but starting to like some of it. Not all.. but at least I am opening up to it. Food- Thai, Pizza, Sushi. I like it all.
The six things I could never do without
My dogs
Diet Coke
The sun
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can be by water as quickly as possible. Love the pool, the lake! The dogs love to swim so we are up at Lake MI every weekend.
On a typical Friday night I am
Depends.. if something good is going on I will be out but I really like Fridays at home with a good movie and some red wine. I prefer Saturday night to go out but again if something good is taking place on Friday I am all for it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I am on this site..
You should message me if
You like dogs! Your picture isnt 10 years old! You plan on being real and want something more than a casual fling.