41 Greenwood, United States
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My self-summary
I'm mellow, laid-back, easy to please (meat and potato's kind of guy), and "old-school".

I'm not what I would consider a materalistic person, but I do believe in having the best when I can afford it, and not spending more than what's within my means....(comes from growing up poor and raising above it thru education and hard-work.)

I've been told more than once that I'm diffently a "city boy", but I'm just as a comfortable camping out in the woods for a few days as I am hanging out downtown with friends.

I consider myself a decent, well-traveled, law-abiding, educated, stable guy with above-average intelligence and thankfully, a good dose of common-sense.

At the end of the day.....I think I'm looking for the same thing everyone else is, to be loved as much as I love, and being an affectionate person, that tends to get me walked on more than I care for, because I'm the kind of person who will give the shirt off his back to make sure his signicant other, his family, and his friends are safe and taken care of.

In short, I consider myself to be one of the few "nice guys" left.
What I’m doing with my life
Working and playing whenever possible.
I’m really good at
My job and pretty much anything else I put my mind to, assuming it holds my interest or is important to me.

And apparently being lead on by women who can't make up their damn minds about what they want....or just want to have their cake and eat it too.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'd say my self-confidence.....but uptil recently it was my long hair (just cut off 16 inches)....which at this point I'm kinda kicking myself in the ass for cutting it off.

But as they say, hindsight is always better than foresight.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books/Authors: Stephen King, Dean Koontz, Military History, Technical and scientific based literature.....(used to be an avid reader, but I haven't really had the time to read anything till recently).

Movies: Almost anything....from drama to action to sci-fi to comedy....just nothing too horrificly going to the movies for a good first-run flic as well as renting some dvd's and relaxing under a warm blanket on the couch on a rainy sunday afternoon....prefereably with a friend ;)

Shows: 80's TV shows, Animated (southpark/family guy/adult swim), Modern Marvels, Top-Gear

Music: Mostly 60's to current, classic rock, alternative, electronic....tolerant of country and rap, but not my first choice.

Food: I have a multitude of tastes, but I LOVE a good home-cooked Italian, taco-bell and subway works fine too. I try to eat healthy when possible, but I've learned the food that's considered "bad" for you tends to taste the best.
The six things I could never do without
1. My daughter's love.

2. A stick to beat the women off of me who are only interested in what I can do for them after they find out what my financial position is and what I do for a living.

3. My cellphone (it's my lifeline to my family and friends, as well as my clients, which is what keeps the bills paid)

4. Comfortable shoes

5. A clean home and warm bed that doesn't kill my back.

6. An ice-cold Mountain Dew (I'm in IT, so it's kind of a requirement, lol)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My little girl, the world she's living in, and how I can make it a better place for her.


Why I didn't listen to my gut instincts 7 years ago....but love makes you do stupid things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either out with friends, out and about with my daughter when I have her, or at home doing the laundry, playing an occasional game of diablo 3 or MW4, or relaxing with a good movie and some awesome take-out food with my cat iggy sleeping on my lap.

Update: I've found the bar scene is great for finding women who either like to drink too much or have an ego to feed....and going by yourself just plain sucks, espc when most of your friends are still married or are the assinine idiots that give guys like me a bad name.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Based on my experiences with women over the past 20 years, I'd probably be gay if it wasn't for the sex.
You should message me if
You're looking for someone besides most of these jerks who treat women like a piece of meat, wants them to be their mommy or treats you like you're a possesion that they own....who's been raised right and knows how to treat a woman with respect, honesty, and tenderness....and you don't have your head up your rear-end.