JohnAbeem
33 Flint, United States
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My self-summary
I am too damn old to go out and do stupid things. I just want quiet things.. And like 15 more tattoos.

I feel that I am usually the smartest person in the room, but after a lifetime of setbacks, I no longer have the desire to prove it.

I am a hard worker, loyal to a fault, and will always have your back until the day you push me away. If you make it in my heart, I will fight for you. Every time.
What I’m doing with my life
I have transformed my life in the recent past. I have spent too much of my life just floating. Dead end jobs and not much effort into improving my life led to a lifestyle most do not find ideal.

Currently I have a great new job, bought my car, moved into a great living situation, and am carving out a niche for myself.
I’m really good at
I usually have a quick connection with people. With my vast tastes in music, random trivia knowledge, and food, I can usually start a lasting conversation quickly and easily. I feel I am the rare type that actually listens and communicates rather than just waits my turn to speak.

I can look at any pantry and come up with an amazing meal. It really helps when the budget is stretched tightly.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have longish pretty hair. Lol it's more a lack of cutting it more than a desire for long hair. I feel it works

Maybe it is that I'm 6' 2"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love music. From everything to old blues and jazz, to todays hits. Music is the articulation of a mood or an emotion through sound. Every culture has music, and even the most sullen of us all can be put in a better mood by the right song.

I read whatever I can get my hands on. I watch whatever I feel like depending on the mood.

When it comes to food I love pretty much anything and everything. I can recreate pretty much anything.

As for TV... i hate anything with reality trash. Yea, I do think you are a moron if you love the Jersey Shore. I do however love to laugh. I am endeared to shows such as Archer, Always Sunny, Wilfred, and House.
The six things I could never do without
1. clothes to keep me warm
2. music to lift my spirits
3. food to nourish my soul
4. Love to warm my iced over heart
5. A bed to let me find my dreams
6. hope. If I ever lose hope then I am done for
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The complex relationships of the world. How the media controls what we care about. How so much ugliness can be in this world.. and yet at the same time moments of pure nirvana.
On a typical Friday night I am
I am not a bar person, so going out and getting shit faced is not an option for me. I would rather be doing something interesting and quiet. I moved this year, last year I was playing softball on Friday nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I sing Kelly Clarkson songs out loud... often. And off key! Its almost as if my life is the walk away music video.

On a serious note I have had battles with anxiety and depression. I have no problem talking about it and have vowed to never let it slow me down again!
You should message me if
If you like to start a conversation that will never end

If you want some tips and tricks in the kitchen. Or even better, open my eyes to all that you know!

Just want to find someone that will give you an oppertunity. That oppertunity being whatever you would like it to be.
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