61 Lexington, United States
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My self-summary
Six most important character strengths I have are: Creativity, Curiosity, Courage, Humor & Playfulness, Appreciation of Beauty & Excellence, and Authenticity.
Finding Balance in my life is a central pursuit.
I've experienced joy and loss and yet I have never become cynical.
I'm definitely a Romantic Idealist of the Baby Boom generation
and I am spontaneous and a good lover. I love sex and am very affectionate. I'm a healthy man and a good father and able to give and receive love and build a new family.
What I’m doing with my life
After experiences in several careers, I decided to finally do what I was always primed and most adapted to do: become a psychotherapist and work with families and adolescents and college students. I've been very good at that and it also feeds into my writing and has affected my world view in many ways. But I am someone who hangs out with people of all backgrounds, professions, cultures, languages, etc.
I also love to sing and have been taking voice lessons for the past four years with my 10 year old daughter. Being a divorced father has been the most central focus of my life and cultivating and repairing friendships and my relationship with my brother have been central activities.
I’m really good at
Finding and developing other peoples' talents and strengths. Creating and facilitating positive atmospheres for events of significance and fun. With my spontaneity and energy I am able to make things happen with flair and joy.
The first things people usually notice about me
My high energy and intelligence and charisma.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have loved the great singer-songwriters of the past 40+ years such as: Jackson Browne, Bruce Springsteen, Paul Simon, Leonard Cohen, John Lennon, and of course Van Morrison. Grew up with black soul music and later reggae of Bob Marley and of course The Beatles and Rolling Stones. If I could have a second life, I would want nothing more than to be a singer-songwriter.
The six things I could never do without
Women who know how to flirt
Ironic humor
Jon Stewart & Stephen Colbert
Martin Scorcese
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to find a woman who can build a new life with me.
You should message me if
You have the Courage to be a romantic in America when almost everyone else is anti-romantic. If you care about connection more than "connections", have a good sense of humor and irony and are sexy and feminine; you want to be nurtured and have the desire to share and be nurturing.