62Lexington, United States
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My self-summary
Six most important character strengths I have are: Creativity, Curiosity, Courage, Humor & Playfulness, Appreciation of Beauty & Excellence, and Authenticity.
Finding Balance in my life is a central pursuit.
I've experienced joy and loss and yet I have never become cynical.
I'm definitely a Romantic Idealist of the Baby Boom generation
and I am spontaneous and a good lover. I love sex and am very affectionate. I'm a healthy man and a good father and able to give and receive love and build a new family.
What I’m doing with my life
After experiences in several careers, I decided to finally do what I was always primed and most adapted to do: become a psychotherapist and work with families and adolescents and college students. I've been very good at that and it also feeds into my writing and has affected my world view in many ways. But I am someone who hangs out with people of all backgrounds, professions, cultures, languages, etc.
I also love to sing have taken voice lessons for years joined a Rock Choir for a year and am about to launch part time gig doing voice overs. I also perform story slams under name JOHNNY SOUL.
Being a divorced father of a teenage daughter has been the most central focus of my life with joy and lots of challenges. Loving her unconditionally despite not liking some of her behaviors and habits and values, is the ultimate measure of capacity to love.
I’m really good at
Finding and developing other peoples' talents and strengths. Creating and facilitating positive atmospheres for events of significance and fun. With my spontaneity and energy I am able to make things happen with flair and joy.
The first things people usually notice about me
My high energy, intelligence, charisma, good looks, and youthful style in dress and body language.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have loved the great singer-songwriters of the past 40+ years such as: Jackson Browne, Bruce Springsteen, Paul Simon, Leonard Cohen, John Lennon, and of course Van Morrison. Grew up with black soul music and later reggae of Bob Marley and of course The Beatles and Rolling Stones. If I could have a second life, I would want nothing more than to be a singer-songwriter.
Movies: all the best of Martin Scorsese; Chinatown and other Jack Nicholson films, the best of Woody Allen, some Tom Cruise: Jerry Maguire & Rain Man; and love High Fidelity with John Cusack. La la Land should have won and Hidden Figures, Lion, and Manchester by the Sea were great.
Six things I could never do without
My daughter
Women who know how to flirt
Ironic humor
Jon Stewart & John Oliver
Soul music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to find a woman who can build a new life with me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Often heading out to The Berkshires for friends culture and love of lakes and mountains.
You should message me if
You have the courage to be a romantic and care about connection more than "connections"; also have a good sense of humor and irony and care about being sexy and feminine; you want to be nurtured and have the desire to share and be nurturing; believe in reciprocity.
The two of us