Never trying for cool, really quite warm (and will build a glow in you.)
I ask questions, and listen to answers.
I like questions, and listen to askers...
(which is to say charming the pants off you...)
Also, I ask follow-up questions when I'm interested in a conversation. And when I hear, 'I don't know' it always makes me wonder, 'Ok, but what do you think?'
-Wonder Boys, and anything by Wes Anderson or Jean-Pierre Jeunet,
-Comedians in Cars Getting Coffee,
-Pandora: Ennio Morricone, GUNSHIP, Bleachers,
-and anything we can share so we can taste more.
my silly family,
Also a sucker for someone self-aware, who can see the negative but focuses on the positive, and shares her view of things I don't see in the world.
--bonus points if you already know how to kiss.
And if you laugh at both your strengths *and* your weaknesses -- c'mon, c'mon!