35 Brooklyn, United States
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
My self-summary
I am magnitudes more than what you've encountered before.

My passions are: meta communication conversations kink(teaching and parties), helping people find their way in non-hierarchical non-monogamy (no primaries), dancing to music(techno/deep house/industrial/drum and bass/ambient), art gallery openings (minimal/sacred geometry/light installations) and romance.

I am as evil as I am fun. Pleasure, adventure and conversation are vital. I excited about the world and all its awesome weird things. I am magic.
What I’m doing with my life
who cares, work does not define me, what you do, with the exception of "social work", I don't care.
I’m really good at
Listening and talking.

Sometimes I make art and cool stuff.

Impact play (spanking), floggers, hands and whips Oh my!

Having fun wherever I am.
The first things people usually notice about me
My bright colored eyes, dark red beard and hair.

My projected image often doesn't match people's projections on to me.

My energy glows bright like a star.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The six things I could never do without
memory foam bed
sleepmask and earplugs
sex toys
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The inevitability of the things projected on you not being the things you hope or try to make people project on to you.

How in general people do not take enough time to care for themselves as much as they should, or worse how little people understand about self care.
On a typical Friday night I am
seriously nothing is typical, I'm weirder than you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am very passionate and very open, there is very little off the table in for me. ENM, Kink, Dominant, GGG.
You should message me if
If you are looking for a person to share in common interests (art shows, burning man, deep house, industrial techno, kink/play parties, mind altering experiences, working out, Japanese food, unicorn riding) the best friend type partner that you're also romantic with too.

If you are curious about Triad realtionships, ENM, Burning Man culture, exploreing Kink, with a caring considerate teacher.

If you'd like to make some new awakened friends.