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My self-summary
Industrious, intelligent, humoristic and warm.

Passionate on political issues, attentive, affectionate and adventurous. One part Ivy League, one part street. Curious, enthusiastic, with a pronounced private side. Sincere, no hidden agendas. Love music, poetry, wilderness and big cities, fun in many forms and for all the practical stuff in life we slog through I do believe that the symbolic and unspoken have weight. Having worked all over the world, I am an internationalist in political persuasion, in terms of what forms of culture I consume and enjoy, and cross-cultural understanding.
What I’m doing with my life
In the last throes of parenting a teen about to be launched to college or wherever he goes, directing a non-profit environmental and human rights film company and working on green rural development projects. Enjoying outdoor adventures and city life with equal zeal, getting back into a steady diet of travel as well.
I’m really good at
Am I a good parent? I hope so. A good filmmaker? I trust that I am. A great lover? That's subjective. What I am sure of is that I can cook, dance, and make people laugh even under grim circumstances. I can see most any project through. My attempts at gardening, and growing tomatoes like a good Mafia don, are at best, earnest. Being sensitive to the needs of my partner across the spectrum is certainly something I aspire to, and putting in the work that a good partnership takes.
The first things people usually notice about me
Outgoing, funny, caring, with a bit of a flip mouth. Nice looking enough. Smart, or if not, at least clever.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Anything well written on Climate Change.For escapist fare, Luthar and Misfits, BBC-TV. Book wise, War at the End of the Worlds by Llosa. Feminist biographies of Margaret Fuller. Raymond Chandler. Music, King Sunny Ade, Movado, Opera, early Freddie Hubbard, doo wop and soul. Classical of course. Maria Bethania. Gregory Isaacs. Sam and Dave. Soul. Paella. Steamed fish. Fresh greens. Leonard Cohen. The Young bloods. Chopin. Black Flag. Middle Eastern club dance music. Mercedes Sosa. Nueva Canción. Hector Lavoe. Sade. Yellowman. Nigerian dance hall. Fresh picked crab meat. Food that I have grown. Ugandan Curry. Nasi Goreng. Yucca. Elvis Costello. M.S Merwin. Your singing in the shower.
Six things I could never do without
romantic love, filial love, rhythm in music and poetry, a shave with a straight razor, fruit, and of course, coffee. Exercise and outdoorsy stuff activities for sure, fun, sex, and yep, the ocean. Travel and adventure a must. You of course...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What just happened, what is going to happen, and you.
On a typical Friday night I am
No such thing as typical, I could be dancing to a band from Sierra Leone at a downtown fundraiser, recovering from the week by watching re-runs of I-Spy, or folding socks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I enjoy ten terribly good cigars every year and ten glasses of good scotch.
You should message me if
you are interested in a loving man who is earnest and fun, a closet intellectual, has a bit of a wild streak, loyal, responsible and a die hard romantic....
The two of us