40Dana Point, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a guy with brains and a genuine smile. What you see is what you get.
What I’m doing with my life
Looking for the answers and enjoying life.
I’m really good at
Being a good friend. Most of my friends like to talk to me, ask for advice, use me as a sounding board- I listen well. I can cook well and make a few drinks really well. There are a few other things as well, you'll have to meet me to find out!
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm a big friendly teddy bear, and I know my shit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors/Books-Neil Gaiman, Michael Moore, John Grisham, Dan Brown, Stephen King, The Motorcycle Diaries, The Last Temptation of Christ. If you liked Atlas Shrugged and subscribe to the asinine ideas it supports- go away. Movies- The Usual Suspects, Pi, The Shawshank Redemption, Immortal Beloved, Boondock Saints, Avatar, among many others. There is one romantic comedy I like, but I won't tell you which one. TV-wise I love Castle, Grimm, Boardwalk Empire, River Monsters, Restaurant Impossible, and Bar Rescue.

Music- I love everything from Stevie Wonder and Marvin Gaye to Muse and Linkin Park to 2Pac and 2Chainz, Led Zepplin and The Beatles. I actually used to manage bands and love to go "discover" new bands as well as attend big concerts.

Food- I love good food. I have been eating sushi since I was 9 years old and have a fairly adventurous palate- I have been lucky enough to have eaten from a wide array of different cultures and am not afraid to try new things. I can cook pretty well and like to do so. I love Avery Brewing Co. Maharajah (wicked good) and like Coors Light too. Fair Corn Dogs with yellow mustard only, and those cinammon rolls that you get in one of the buildings. You know what I'm talking about.
Six things I could never do without
A warm, comfortable bed. Technology. A good pair of Flip Flops. My smart phone. Good beer. Spicy food.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Many things actually. From what am I going to do next weekend, to why cant real life be more like the plot from a really good movie.
On a typical Friday night I am
Watching some sports with friends. I shoot pool and darts pretty well.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
True love allows each person to follow his or her own path, aware that doing so can never drive them apart.
You should message me if
If you want some one to talk with. You want to hear about their day. Talk about important things. Talk about funny things. Watch The Big Bang Theory. Watch Jon Stewart and Colbert. Drink wine. Look at the stars. You want a lighthearted adult relationship. You want to have fun and let things develop. You want the dude you have always said you wanted, with a few flaws like most people have. You're not bipolar. You aren't a conservative (if you are, I will not hold back my disdain for conservatism nor republicans). You like some sport, I like them all.

*** Note: I am open to a serious relationship, but I want it to develop, not be forced because that's what "we're supposed to do"- let's meet, talk, see where things go without a pre determined requirement. I wish this site gave the option of listing yourself as "looking for casual dating, with the possibility of a serious relationship". ***
The two of us