32 Columbus, United States
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My self-summary
Feminism. It's important to me. I'm also working on decolonizing my mind. I'm from all over, but I consider New York my home and hope to return some day. I would say I'm one of those nerdy types, but honestly I don't use up much of my time dedicated to what is considered nerdy or hip? I'm not actively seeking out things like d n d games. Though maybe I should.

I live in Columbus like I lived in New York. This means I either hitch rides or take public transportation or walk. Yeah... sorry, y'all, but I have no desire to own a vehicle. More power to ya, but it aint my cup.

I really like small gatherings or small company and prefer large gatherings alone.

Unfortunately for me, I suffer from moderate depression, but over the years I like to think that I'm coping. INFP if you find that helpful.

From the bare feet in the creek to the ivory towers of academia, from southern baptist biscuits and gravy to Marx, then Lenin, and Mao and back to Christ with a lipstick smeared Molotov filled with the Holy Spirit and back into the zeitgeist with a red flag and free thought.
What I’m doing with my life
Getting my pics looked at on okc, playing For Honor, reading, working at a grocery store making coffees for people. I just finished my first ever full length play, so I have that going for me, which is nice. Just got my degree from Hunter College back in New York... which is also nice. Have no idea what I'll do with it though. I'm also working on shedding some vanity pounds and doing pretty well at it. Kinda look like a mix of dad bod and p90x. Positive things and positive thoughts. Also, I've been reviewing my answers on okc and while many of them are still accurate, many of my explanations are incendiary. Many of those still stand true for me, but the attitudes have very much cooled.
I’m really good at
Designing things. Clothes for example. Reading to people. Doing things on my PC. Breaking it and fixing it quickly. Giving Face. Cooking a steak. Domestic stuff. I used to be a bit of a messy dude, but started to find zen in cleaning things.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my face. Honestly, I don't know. Just tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Various comics, random articles and blogs so long as it's interesting. Stuff like social justice articles or whatever. Lots of talks and passions about how I feel WB and DC have gone the wrong way with their cinematic works. Rat Queens is pretty great. Rereading American Gods.

WWE, Netflix marathons. Netflix I think is really on the verge or at least leading the way for a new renaissance in television.

Nitzer Ebb, Madonna, Laibach, Kenny Logins, Powerglove, Sex Gang Children. Tend to enjoy semi-obscure 80s music and then the very popular and universally loved 80s pop classics. Laibach is still my favorite band probably ever.

Any kind of food really. I no shit legit want to try a Carolina Reaper some day. I love Ghost Pepper salsa. I'm very aware that such a pepper might actually be the end of me. Nite vale is new to me and reading scp foundation entries are kick ass.

I'm starting to watch ghost in the shell. It's pretty good.

I'm currently falling in mad love with Electroswing and New Retrowave music.
The six things I could never do without


Free Time

Cats and the opportunity to love them

Fulfilling labor

Feminist and Marxist thought.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The things I miss about myself. what steps can I do today to mitigate my depression? Why am I getting psychologically profiled for a low skilled entry level job for a big retail or food chain? Fully automated luxury queer space communism! Becoming a cat gent!
On a typical Friday night I am
An anarchist, a communist, and a feminist are in a car. Who's driving??? A cop. But seriously... probably entertaining myself or convincing myself why I shouldn't be contacting people here. Lately, closing up shop. I'm on a retail/food service schedule.
You should message me if
If you want or are feeling brave. A lot of my matches are apparently hardcore go getters with a lot of ambition with the capital and means to live out their dreams and go on adventures. I admire you all from a distance, but I think I might bore you to death. I'm not looking for an adventure buddy. I'm not looking to make my life more quixotic. Been there, done that. At this stage of my life, I'm pretty much confronting a lot of old bad habits and inner demons. I'm... healing? I guess? So I'm not looking to impress to mislead or put up a front that I'm more interesting than I really am. Seriously. I'd rather just meet up, grab coffee or a couple drinks... shoot the shit. Complain about liberalism and imperialism. Maybe have a few x-mances with kind hearted and chill people.

On that note, I'm really kinda looking for go with the flow types of people. I'll be here in Columbus for the winter, but plan on going back to nyc in spring or summer. But who knows? Maybe it'd be fun to hang?