My lover did tell me when we started that I wasn't the only one he was seeing. As we got more involved I became concerned that I might be a home wrecker. In an attempt to assure me, he indicated That there were two others both widows like me. Both had only been with their husbands before him and both of been tested and were clean.
At this point, I was told by friend and relatives that I should keep my options open, so I reluctantly decided to change my profile at Cupid (my favorite website) so there you have it. Sorry if not including this misled anyone. My humble apologies.
That said, let me continue with the description of the kind of person I am. I can be playful and fun to be with. I can be turned on by intellect, humor, and I have a spontaneous personality. My approach to life is being positive---whiny complaining and destructive sarcasm or put downs aren't welcome.
Recently I rediscovered my art --painting-transitional abstract impressionistic- and fans have discovered it as well. by those I am now hailed as artist---long used to the title, teacher, I am amazed by the new recognition. Message me and I'll tell you how to see my art.
Finally a last update--- in the process of self discovery, I have discovered a bit of kink in my personal makeup. Could use an understanding friend re this.
Tell you more when I get to know you....
More updating: Now reading on my kindle : Sex in the Seasoned Woman by Gail Sheehy, the Loving Dominant by John and Libby warren, and Fifty Shades of Grey by E L James.
I listen to and enjoy all kinds of music--mainly in my car, where I have been known to sing along with Credence Clearwater or meditate with Mozart or Beethoven. And recently pop and dance music from disks compiled by my 23 yearold grandson---loud! (well, in the car anyway. )
Update. Listen to music recorded by my 25 year old grandson--LOUD. Recently decided my personal theme song is "Try" by Pink. As a result of this exposure, I avidly follow events in TV show "the Voice " along with my grandson.
My favorite foods are homemade tacos with hard shells and coffee ice-cream. Update Lime Greek yogurt also.
One of my most favorite friends is my puppy Gobi. Before he arrived on the scene I thought I was a just a cat person.
My pets- Gobi and Trevor
Someone to love
If I had a love, about him.