72Royal Oak, United States
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My self-summary
Over the years I've become more aware of both myself and those around me, I've done some stupid (nothing illegal) but I've learned a lot and am on the way UP^

I am a man who with a desire to live life and am looking for a woman who is looking for an affetionate, caring warm man that strives to endure with closeness approprite within the relationship. =I've learned and feel that touch, gentle touch is an important part of communications between 2 persons and am looking for a lady who isn't a "prude" on this subject, for a simple swipe canbe very senious.
What I’m doing with my life
I've won a lot, and lost a lot. Including loosing the best job in 40 some years - working with Seniors but still do in a different capacity. Did a stint with a new adventure - marketing for a local company, while now back working with Seniors in a Detroit Area Residence and of course there is Hypnosis and product development as a side line ventures. And as a side line I do a little Hypnotism, but very little. A Side Bar: I am on the heavy side, but down some 100 lbs and 8 inches and working on the more. It's not hard while never being hungry and very rewarding seeing the results.
Course there's the Toes to Nose/Nips to Lips thing, but that's better talked about F2F.
I’m really good at
Working with my hands.
Figuring out what is or not. .
Having an insight into . . .
And compassion and empathy
The first things people usually notice about me
Some say I look some 8 - 10 years younger
I am kind, considerate and am a pleaser
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music of the 40's, 50's and 60's. Pops and some classical. Broadway and as I'm currently on a sugarless diet - eating sparringly and have lost some 2-3 lbs per week
Six things I could never do without
Belief in myself, my friends and the spirit
Companship - knowing what I've lost and gained
Family - just a "Goodnight Johnboy" kinda person
Roof over my head - working with the homeless
Vehicle - need transportation
My computer - my drug of choice
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Althought it isn't a lot of the time, it is part of our "DNA", so about the past and how to give it up for the future, as the past is with us all the time, it's how we handle it, how we react to it and how we embrace and reject it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Don't go out alone so . . . But do surf other places, such as the fishing one
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
All about me - there should be no secrets, just there is a time and place such as F2F
You should message me if
If you'd like to "gaze" into my eyes, I'm interested. I would love to hear from you, as Grumpy's is now closed, lets find another spot for breaking bread on Saturday evenings around 6pm -one that we can call our own. Personally I've grown to like LIttle Daddy's, any of their 3 locations.
I'd like to add that years ago an Old Soccer coach told the kids, and I've never forgot these words: “Please remember - You will miss 100% of the goals if you DON'T take a shot!" And what am I looking for? A lady that I can Hang Out with; Talk and E-mail; be friends with and date; in time, have those special intimate times all evolving to a long term relationship. All I ask is that a picture would certainly be nice, to see with whom you are "speaking" with. I 'm a "giver"
The two of us