I'm at an awkward stage in my dating / non-dating life right now. I'm married, and we have been polyamorous for many years, but after my last break up, I'm reevaluating whether I want to remain poly or whether I would prefer to go back to mono (or being a "closed poly dyad," perhaps). I found the endless calendaring, the late-night talks smoothing over the feelings of an SO of a metamour, the awkward "which person do I bring along to this wedding" social crap, and plenty of other elements of poly pretty damn annoying. But. There are some things I miss. I liked being weird. I liked the perspective that groups of people are free to make their own rules as long as everyone consents. I like being real about the fact that it's totally possible to love more than one person at a time, and that doesn't mean anyone has to break up. And, frankly, I'm kind of into threesomes (as long as I'm emotionally close to everybody and didn't just meet via a sad pre-orgy Denny's dinner).
Also, despite knowing that I'm bi for many years, I've never had the opportunity to actually date a girl. It's something I've always wanted to try.
So. It has been over a year since the last break up, and I feel like I've almost got my shit together. Almost. There are still a couple things I need to tie up before I would be willing to start anything serious. In the meantime, I want to make some new friends. If some of those friends happen to be women-who-like-women, find me attractive, and might one day down the road be interested in dating -- or just having a non-post-Denny's threesome -- hey, sign me up.
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You're totally okay with it if we end up just being buds. I'm looking for people who won't feel misled if we end up being friendsies and yet won't feel insulted if I start hitting on them in a few months.
You are patient and willing to listen to me ramble about law school and/or my kids.
You would never in a million years send me a dick pic. Unless it's a picture of someone named Dick. Those are acceptable.