32Mooresville, United States
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My self-summary
I don't really know where to start...I can be pretty shy at first, until I get comfortable and get to know someone. I sometimes really need someone to pull me outta my shell. Not a big partier or club goer...I don't mind the occasional bar though, just not really into the "gay scene". Trying to live a more active lifestyle and get out more and try new things so I'm up for almost anything. I'd love to be more "outdoorsy" or whatever that non-word is. Very much a romantic kinda guy, I'm extremely loyal and I'm ALL about the couple stuff. I'm a HUGE cuddler...yes, I am but a giant teddy bear.

I can be a very blunt person. Very opinionated. Sometimes to a fault, I think. Basically, I just don't like bullshit. Say what you mean, mean what you say. Umm...I'm told I'm a funny, intelligent guy. You can be the judge of that. I have confidence but I'm not a big fan of going off on a rant about my "amazing" qualities like some people are. I'm a pretty humble, modest person.

FYI, I'll rarely make the first move. If I rate you 4 or 5 stars, it's probably because I'm interested and trying to get your attention. heh
What I’m doing with my life
I have plans! I feel like I'm getting a late start on said plans but still...they are plans and they do exist. I have a real love for animals and I've thought about working with them, volunteering and such. I have a love of food and the culinary arts...thats a big possibility at some point but will more than likely stay a hobby. Basically just getting by for the moment and I have plans to start school again pretty soon.
I’m really good at
I definitely have a passion for cooking. Painting is a big hobby of mine, I'm told I'm pretty good. I'm a great listener and I try to be the best friend I can be.
The first things people usually notice about me
You'd have to ask "people". Probably that I'm kinda shy at first. Er...not really shy, I hate that word...let's use "guarded". And the facial hair...people always comment on the facial hair. I've been told I have nice lips and eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I've never been a huge reader until recently. A good friend gave me a kindle for my birthday and I'm kind of obsessed with it now. Don't get me wrong, I still buy and LOVE actual books. I could walk into a book store and stay there for hours simply for the smell of them alone. I love anything different, experimental, original ideas. Don't ask me anything about Twilight or...Fifty Shades of whatever because that's just insulting. I DID get on board with The Hunger Games, I LOVE everything about it. I like comedic books...Chelsea Handler and David Sedaris, Jenny Lawson. I like mysteries, horror. Invisible Monsters is probably my favorite book. Catcher in the Rye, The Passage, The Help, The Kite Runner, World War Z, The Perks of Being a Wallflower. I'm currently reading through the Harry Potter series...I know, I'm late, but whatever, I love it. It doesn't matter, really. If it's well written and I can get into the story, I'll read it. Definitely looking for recommendations!

Movies and Music: These are tough ones. SO many. I love them ALL! I'm a huge movie person. I love going to movies, watching at home...I have a huge collection. VERY difficult to choose a favorite movie or genre though I do tend to get more excited over a good horror movie than a comedy. Julie & Julia may be my favorite movie. I have seen it more times than I can count. That kinda ties into my love of food, Paris and Meryl Streep though. Music...I have VERY eclectic taste. I like pretty much anything besides hardcore rap and most country.

TV: I love TV and I watch WAY more than I should. Too many things to name, really. It's usually on the HGTV if nothing else is on. Or MSNBC. I've gotten pretty heavily into politics lately and Rachel Maddow is my hero. I like reality competition shows like Top Chef, Idol, X Factor, ANTM, So You Think You Can Dance feeds my secret desire to be a hip hop dancer, heh...too many others, I admit. Happy Endings is probably my new favorite. New Girl, 2 Broke Girls, Big Bang Theory, How I Met Your Mother, Modern Family, Community, True Blood, Grey's Anatomy, Scandal, Smash, The Walking Dead, Revenge, Downton Abbey, Once Upon A Time...we could really be here all day. I find myself watching 30 Rock, Golden Girls, Sex and the City and Friends on DVD a lot lately.

Food: YOU MUST LOVE SUSHI. Ok, you don't HAVE to but you have to be willing to go out for sushi with me A LOT. I love Italian...it's probably my favorite to eat as well as my favorite to cook, Chinese, Mexican...I could go on and on, really.
Six things I could never do without
My iPhone
My sense of humor
The internet
Breathing is pretty cool.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Things...and sometimes stuff.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out, in...whatever. Usually not much lately. Again, not really a big partier or club person though.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I struggle with my weight. I'm really working on myself right now. Eating better, exercise. I intend to join a gym again pretty soon. I've lost a lot in the past, gained it back...trying to do it again and keep it off. It's difficult but I'll get there.

I'm also an extremely clean, organized person. Almost OCD...not quite. Almost.

I wear my heart and my emotions on my sleeve. I'm a very open person.

I am, in fact, a homosexual.
You should message me if
If you're astronaut Mike Dexter...or if you want to get to know me better. If you've made it this far...and I know this is A LOT to read because I kind of have a tendency to ramble at times, so...really, you may as well.

Oh, also, I'm definitely not a prude, but let's try to keep it at least moderately classy with the messages, yeah? If you're looking for a hookup, no judgement here but I'm not your guy. However, thanks for showing me that pic of your penis I didn't ask for.

In all seriousness, I am looking to meet some great people from anywhere and everywhere for friendship and hopefully find a great guy to share life with. I'm not opposed to (temporary) long distance. Limiting myself in finding "Mr. Right" is just depressing to me.

I'm one of those "nice guys" you hear about sometimes, I promise.
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