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My self-summary
I turned Forty this year and I feel great about where I am in my life. I have been blessed to live a great life, and I usually have a lot of fun. I have a great family and friends, I could always use more friends to do things with. But I am very pleased and happy with where I am at in my life.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now in life, I work a lot I have two jobs and work all the time, that would be a bad thing but I really enjoy both my jobs. At one of my jobs I'm out in the town so it allows me to be social and get out. When I'm not working I'm usually at my place in Ocean Beach where I love to live, OB is such a great little town to live in. I spend my time there writing my autobiography (my life has been a kick in the pants so I'm putting it down on paper), I spend the rest of my time reading books, watching movies and listening to music. I love music that may be an huge underestimate, I believe music can change the world, ok maybe not that far. But it is magical, tell what else can take you back in time, return you to a time and feelings just by hearing it. Music can turn your "Your brown eyes blue" If you don't believe me I'll use a quote from my book, "You can be in the worst mood, but try to frown with singing your favorite song." Music has been a big part of my life for as long as I can remember. My brother and I's hobby since we were young is driving around the country and going to concerts. We have spent a lot of time driving around the nation and we have seen the greatest name in Rock n Roll perform all over the country. Let me tell you it's been a great life. Just two days ago I drove up to Anaheim to see Bruce Springsteen play, one of the best live performers in Rock n Roll, it was an amazing show.
I’m really good at
I am good at a lot of things in life, I'm good at my work.. but that's just work.I am really good at being a friend to people, there is almost nothing that I wouldn't do for my friends. I am good at listening to people, and helping them. I'm a people person so it's easy for me to deal with people and to help them. And I'm really good at keeping cool in highly stressful situations, part of my job is to handle stressful stuff and be able to solve them peacefully.
The first things people usually notice about me
I been told that the first thing people notice about me are my eyes and my presence. I guess I have a presence when I walk into a room. I don't notice it myself but a guess other people do, and I have been told my eye attract attention also.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Well lets start with the big one music... I was born and raised on Rock n Roll and have it coursing through my veins. Anything from 50s and 60s rock to the 90d's and 2000's. My top five would be the Grateful Dead, The Allman Brothers, Government Mule,(I'm a huge Warren Haynes fan) Dave Matthews, and Bruce Springsteen, all of which my brother and I have traveled all over the country to see. Our hobby since we were young has been driving around the country and going to concerts and music festivals together. Some of the highlight have been The three years we went to Bonnaroo Music festival in Tennessee, The Allman Brothers for three days at the Beacon Theater in New York City, The Grateful Dead Family Reunion in Alpine Valley Wisconsin, and Springsteen for the first of nine shows at Giants Stadium in New Jersey, and just about every concert I ever saw at Red Rocks Amphitheater in Colorado. There was a Jimmy Buffet concert in West Palm Beach that stood out too. I was also at the biggest U2 concert ever held in the US at the Pasadena Rose Bowl, 97,000+ people. Oh and I saw Chuck Berry open up for the Grateful Dead that was pretty cool. But I am very diverse in my rock for instants moving into my top ten would include bands like Jimmy Buffet, Motley Crue, Pink Floyd, U2. and the greatest band in the history of the world The Beatles. But now a days I'm even listening to stuff like P!nk, and I love 80's hair bands Motley Crue, Guns and Roses, Tesla Scorpions. And talk about filling your head with worthless information... I can singing you almost all the words to almost every rock song ever written, along with tons of oldies, Sam Cooke, Marvin Gaye, Dion, The Four Tops, and on a good day even some Garth Brooks, Brook N Dunn and Reba.

My movie tastes are about as diverse as my musical taste having over three hundred in my collection including every great action trilogy that ever came out, Godfather, Die Hard, Indiana Jones, Lethal Weapon, Star Wars, and about twenty other trilogy's. I love Disney and Pixar movies too, so I'll often be watching animated movies. And I'm not one of those guys that says that they don't like love stories, I do actually like most good cinema. I also like history movies like Band of Brothers and The Pacific story that show that there were real heroes in the world at one time.

I don't watch a lot of TV, but I do like channels like the Discovery and History, Sport center. I recently found the show Supernatural which I love and the Big Bang Theory.

For food well that's another story, I love food. I like Mexican and Italian, American, love BBQ. I like Sushi but i don't eat it a whole lot, rather have a good steak for that kind of money. But I love chicken, not big into seafood but there are somethings that I like. I like Chinese, and Pho. And I'll try almost anything once.
Six things I could never do without
1. Music
2. Family
3. Friends
4. My Computer
5. My Bed
6. My Memories
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think about a lot of things, mostly about my life and where I've been and where the roads of life will lead me in my future. My friends and loved ones whose path deviated from mine and are no longer with me in this life. I also spend a lot of time thinking about my brother and the amazing things we have experienced together. But mostly I think about the person who saved my soul and gave it back to me, my father, he is now and forever will be my hero.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working as always, I'm in charge of running a security team for a local San Diego hot spot. But as I have said I love my job so it's not really like work to me. Plus I've been doing it so long that it's just second nature to me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My life is literally an open book, well it will be someday. so I don't have a lot skeletons. I did save a few good ones just for myself. You might learn them once we get to know each other.
You should message me if
If you just want to meet a cool down to earth guy one who is real, and honest, comfortable with himself, one who has a lot of cool stories to tell about great adventures, and one who is always trying to create a few more.
The two of us