I AM NOT INTERESTED IN ALCOHOLICS (self identified or otherwise) for friends or hook ups or anything. But must be ganja friendly; smoker till the day I chose to be otherwise. I laughed out loud to see that this site has rated me as "More Arrogant", at first I was offended but then I remembered all the other names strong opinionated feisty ladies have been called and I've decided that I don't give a fuck what OKC thinks of me. I am new to this site and just like the battle of whether to get a smart phone or not I have mixed feelings about this kind of people finding site.
For those who know or care I am an INTJ
I'm seeking more self care currently, which means being
quiet and alone more often than not.
"Only a pragmatist would describe themselves as a pragmatist."
-a dear friend responding to me
I am very good at driving, I prefer manuals and high speeds.
Movies: Fight Club, Kill Bill I/II, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, The Matrix, Young Frankenstein, The Professional, Chocolat; I also grew up on musicals, I can't sit through one without singing along. Oh and just about any Monty Python or any Hayao Miyazaki films.
I wish I could say I don't watch TV but I do. Dexter, Breaking Bad, The Simpsons, Wilfred, The Boondocks, House of Cards, Sherlock, Dr Who, Skins, House MD, Blue Planet, Orange is the New Black, Loui, Sons of Anarchy and That 70's Show. Updated: Bob's burgers, Rick and Morty, Penny Dreadful, The Magicians, Shameless, New Girl, (anything) Tiny House, Black Mirror and Last Week Tonight.
I love anything cheese, Mexican (&Mexicali) food, Japanese food, deli sandwiches, Thai food, pie, ice cream, and chocolate chip cookies, the gooey kind.
2.Intimacy (sex, cuddling, affection, etc)
3.Yoga (Philosophy and Physical practice)
4.Costal Living, more specifically California, home of the BURRITO!!
5.Music and the Arts
6.Education, I value life long learning
I think about intersectionality, collective unconsciousness, food and drugs (my experiences and those of others, and society), intentional communities, sustainable living, renewable resources, music, the end of reality as I know it, school, stuff like that.
Also how early should we integrate knowledge about sexual health and how to give and ask for consent in our schools? Answer this please.
Tip 1: talk to me about shit I'm interested in. Do not open with comments about my appearance. I own mirrors.
Tip 2: do not assume anything. If I don't talk to you, it probably just means I didn't know how to respond to you. If I do talk to you, it's no indicator that I'm interested.
With that said, don't be scared. Just engage me in conversation and treat me like a person. Try asking me a question, my answers may surprise you.
Also messages like "hey" or "how's your weekend going?" Or "how you doing?" Are not likely to be responded to. I'm looking for something a bit more engaging.