27 Holyoke, United States
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My self-summary
Always the hardest part; having to talk about myself. I'm actually quite a normal person. Sometimes I think I'm a bit too normal, but I guess we are all entitled to feeling like that sometimes. I've been on this site for a while now, and I've had my share of experiences with relationships. In the end I've learned to simply leave myself open and take things as they come. If you desire to attempt any sort of relationship with me (be it friendship, significant other [with or without physical intimacy], kink partner, or anything within the confines of sanity), then feel free to let me know. I may say yes, or I may not, but it will be based solely on our compatibility as people. The one thing I've learned over the years is I have no idea what form my ideal relationship will take in the end. I'll do my best not to lose the right person if/when I find them.

Of course, saying that, I'm also a bit of an introvert and value alone time. I don't hate people, but socializing can be draining.

I'm in love with stories. It doesn't matter what kind. Whether it be film, games, books, news, history, plays, or music, I adore any medium that can tell a beautiful story and make me feel something real.

I was raised with three older brothers and they taught me to be quite the geek. I love horror, sci-fi, and fantasy. I also play pen and paper roleplaying and boardgames. I recently got into Dungeon Mastering for the first time.

I can have a macabre imagination. That translates into a few parts of my life.

I love all types of food. I'll eat vegetarian, vegan, anything. Spicy stuff is usually my favorite though.

I love cutesy things. I'm not a girly girl, but I can act like one sometimes. I giggle a lot.

I LOVE BUGS! I love how they crawl, and skitter, and fly, and buzz, and the way their intricate parts more together like poetry.
What I’m doing with my life
At the moment I have an ordinary job, just trying to earn what I can to get what I need. As far as long term, I'm looking to go into entomology (field research, conservation work, or forensics).

I'm working on a few stories of mine which I hope to eventually publish in either a novel or comic book form. Since I tend to think very visually, I would ideally make it a graphic novel. I'm tentatively looking for a possible partner or two in this endeavor.

I would also like to travel the world and experience nature on a global scale.

I deeply crave new experiences, and I'm willing to try most things at least once.
I’m really good at
Well one thing I've always been pretty good at is coming up with new tales to tell. I'm good with making up stories and films on short notice. As to how well I carry them out, I leave that to my viewers/readers.

Besides that, I'm not sure. I'm definitely not one of the more skilled people on this earth. I do have some traits which have helped me time to time in dealing with people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm tall and never completely sure what to do with my limbs when I'm not using them.

I don't make eye contact.

I'm not terribly talkative. I'm not shy, but I hate small talk and would rather speak only to convey or gain information that is valuable. To that end, I don't have much use for words that don't get straight to the point. Don't take this to mean you can't engage me in light or flowery conversation. I say this only as a warning that I may falter at times with keeping up.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music: Gorillaz / The Magnetic Fields / Jethro Tull / Chumbawamba / Adele / Clutch / System of a Down / Jonathan Coulton / The Sounds / Adam Ant / Devo / Scissor Sisters / I Monster

Movies: Big Fish / Inception / The Dark Knight / The Princess Bride, Fantasia / Up / Toy Story / The Lord of the Rings / Scott Pilgrim vs the World / Tangled / The Producers / My Big Fat Greek Wedding / Let the Right One In / Singin' in the Rain / Black Swan / Hot Fuzz / The Good, the Bad, The Weird / Kiss Me Kate

Shows: Baccano! / Yes Minister / MST3K / Doctor Who / Firefly / Babylon 5 / Hellsing / Fullmetal Alchemist / Project Runway / Cowboy Beebop / The Twilight Zone / My Little Pony / Adventure Time / Death Note / Fruits Basket / A Bit of Fry and Laurie / Dexter / Jeeves and Wooster / Blackadder / Monk / Psych / Soul Eater / The Walking Dead / Game of Thrones / Breaking Bad / Avatar / Steven Universe <3 / Stranger Things / Daredevil / Jessica Jones / Stranger Things

Books: The Princess Bride / LOTR / Dracula / Clive Barker / The Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy / A Song of Ice and Fire

Food: quiche, sushi, chicken, fried tofu, absolutely any kind of vegetable
The six things I could never do without
personal growth
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My greatest dreams and future career.

What life is going to be like for me in the future.

I also daydream a lot, expanding on the stories in my head.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually working. When I get home I may draw, write, go on Facebook, talk on the phone, relax with a book, go for a walk, or perhaps play a video game. I'm also always trying to learn something new when I can.
You should message me if
(You are alright with getting late replies. I try my best to keep on top of things, but with my schedule I am hardly ever online enough. I deeply and sincerely apologize to anyone I keep waiting.)

If you want to get to know me more as a person. Whether your interested in romance or friendship, you can feel free to hit me up.