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My self-summary
Hey there potential friends! My name is Ruby and I'm a transgender woman trying to find my way in the universe. I'm the parent of an awesome 16 year old son and a lover of people.

I'm happily married to wonderful woman (Siobhan) we are poly and I'm not opposed to dating and making new connections.

What can I say about me, I'm a super positive, non judgemental loving person and I tend to surround myself with likeminded people. I really don't have time for bitter, pessimistic judgemental people in my life. I spent the last 39 years figuring out that if you can't be happy with yourself that you'll never be truly happy in any relationship and I'm happy to say that I've finally embraced who I am in life and am going after what I want and living life on my terms.

I'm a very loving person when It comes to relationships, I love just lying in bed with my partner and could totally spend the day snuggling. I love the outdoors and hiking, geocaching and exploring new places. I tend to live my life in a way where I don't worry about things and I like to see where the wind takes me. My idea for a fun vacation would be to hop in the car and just drive until I find somewhere interesting. I don't have time to sweat things I can't control and I abhor drama.
I love to laugh and sing and to make other people smile.

I am a (console) gamer, I don't do online games (mmo's) as they are too much of a time suck. That being said, gaming is my hobby. It's what I like to do with my free time instead of TV. I do like TV and movies in moderation but I really prefer something a little more interactive. I'm also an anime fan, I like to go to conventions and cosplay when I can afford it.

Like I said earlier I'm happily engaged to a wonderful woman and I'm open to dating someone kind of like myself or someone who aspires to find happiness in this world and beauty in the little things in life, I'm polyamorous and I believe in loving as much as humanly possible with no limits. I believe that honesty and trust are the foundations of any relationship and I truly believe that without those things relationships are doomed to fail.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm living it to it's fullest! I spent ten years of my life in a vanilla marriage, then I met my ex and she opened my eyes to the other side of life and I'm never going back! I am working to be a better mother to my son, & bringing other kinky people together with my kinky social group that I run called Generation Kink!
I’m really good at
I'm really good at making people laugh, I'm not sure if it's my goofy personality or my clumsy nature but it makes people smile and that makes me happy!
The first things people usually notice about me
People usually notice how bubbly and friendly I am! Also how I'm not afraid to laugh at myself. I learned a long time ago that if you can't laugh at yourself that you will lead a pretty miserable life.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Hmm books, lately I've been reading the Song Of Ice and Fire series. Movies and tv, I like your typical dorky sci fi stuff. Lately it has been Dexter, True Blood, The Walking Dead, Supernatural & American Horror Story. I'm also a long time Whovian! Music wise I'm a huge 311 fan my other favs include Incubus, The Urge, Fair to Midland, Brookroyal and Panic at the Disco. I tend to like fun positive music and I really don't care for country.
Six things I could never do without
My Fiancée
My son
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What kinds of things I can get away with in my Domo costume! ^_^
On a typical Friday night I am
Out and about with my fiancée, hosting a munch, or on a fun adventure.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hmm it's not really private but I have a transformation fetish. If you'd like to know what that means, send me a message and I'll elaborate.
You should message me if
If you are fun, open minded, want to meet other kinky folks, or just want someone to talk to or explore new things with.
The two of us