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My self-summary
I'm a single father who is very family oriented, I love the good times and the challenges equally. I never run from a good challenge or negotiate the price of success, there are no easy paths. The road has ups, it has downs. There are forks, switch backs, detours, and roadblocks that will try to derail and discourage us from our dreams and goals every day. You've got to remain mentally tough and "you gotta fight for your right to party!" I don't see obstacles, I've got my eyes fixed on the goal; obstacles and failure are opportunities in disguise. You have to be comfortable with being uncomfortable. If you are comfortable you aren't changing anything. I love to plan things out and make things happen but I also REALLY, REALLY enjoy spontaneity in my life.
I am on a mission to lose some weight and get fit. Want to do it together? I'd like to spend my time with someone who has a passion for life, similar goals and the ability to see the big picture. There are no limits, only limiting thinking. We are the architects of our lives and we have the power to create the abundance and the circumstances we envision. I'm looking for a woman/exercise buddy/best friend. Someone who finds real value in two people coming together, establishing some mutual goals and dreams. Being supportive of each other and building momentum that will be the foundation for a great relationship/partnership in business and a family legacy built on trust, integrity, loyalty and honesty. I believe in having an unwavering ability to live, love, laugh and have a healthy sense of humor. It is as important to our overall health as eating right and exercising.

Lets get hopped up on coffee and have a nice penetrating man-to-woman conversation with each other.
I don't just like sexual double entendres I love them, I stroke them, I milk them, I spank them when they're naughty.
What I’m doing with my life
Writing my own eulogy and living up to it!
I’m really good at
I am really good at being me!
Really listening to people more than I talk and hearing what they're truly saying. Having that information and understanding their message allows me to respond appropriately and make sure their needs are met. I am really good at being available when people need me the most. Educating, inspiring and moving people to action. I am really good at working hard, service to community, communication, random acts of kindness, chivalry. I am REALLY good at romance and passion. Treating people right, honesty, integrity, loyalty. Camping, fishing, playing the drums, guitar and singing to you. Picking out the positive in people as well as effectively evaluating and filtering the negative ones out of my life. I am really good at being optimistic/realistic, smiling like it's my job, being happy; and last but certainly not least, being the worlds GREATEST Dad and Boyfriend/Husband soon.
The first things people usually notice about me
My Charisma and enthusiasm about life and the people around me. I give great hugs and that I make people laugh and feel comfortable. I can talk to anyone and when I do I usually end up making a new friend. People notice that I am big on excellent eye contact and that I'm very respectful, confident, supportive, and caring. The first things people usually notice about me is that parents LOVE me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Primarily I read books at any point in the day when I have down time and especially in the first 20-30 min of every day. I really enjoy books like Think and Grow Rich, The Richest Man in Babylon, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, The One Minute Closer, 177 Mental Toughness Secrets, Anything by Zig Ziglar, Jim Rohn, Brian Tracy, and Tom Hopkins to name a few. I watch probably a total of an 3-5 hours of Netflix a week if even that much. When I do actually watch a show, I am usually laying in bed relaxing and on my way to sleep. Usually American Dad, some sort of Documentary, Walking Dead, Family Guy, or a movie, I'm not gonna take a lot of time naming off everything I like to watch. I like all kinds of movies really, we will just have to bounce some genres and titles off each other.
I enjoy all kinds of music from Classical to Metal. Needless to say, very eclectic there.
Food is simple, I love all kinds and I would have to say sushi is one of my favorites. But I absolutely love the delicious flavor of Vi-Shape the shake mix that tastes like a cake mix. The nutritional powerhouse of every Body by Vi Challenge Kit, Vi-Shape offers a filling and balanced meal designed to help you lose weight and support lean muscle and healthy energy. You will learn more about that when you get on The Challenge with me.
Six things I could never do without
1. Faith
2. Family
3. business
4. Honesty
5. Integrity
6. Health and Fitness
Being grateful
Nature/being outdoors
Road trips/adventure
Music and playing shows!
Cold beer
Red wine
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Building and empire and family legacy!
Oh yeah, and sex!
On a typical Friday night I am
Doing something fun with you and or my kids! We can elaborate on this sometime during our conversation.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't want to tell you all my dirty little secrets... Yet. You might be able to squeeze it out of me, your secrets get mine! :)
I will say this however. I am an absolute... Well let's just say my libido is such that I've never found anyone who could keep up with me to date. :-P
You should message me if
Sparks and thoughts are whizzing through your brain and your intuition tells you to send me a message. You feel like there is something you can't explain that draws you to me. You have the undeniable urge to talk about your hopes and dreams with me over a drink or coffee. You should message me if it makes sense to you and you feel like you would be absolutely missing out if you didn't.
You get the feeling that I am the one!
The two of us