Kel-Paten
50 Campbell, United States
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My self-summary
Who am I in a few words? Quiet, fun guy looking to live life to the fullest.

I'm in the process of a divorce (amicable) and looking to enrich my life with an intimate poly relationship to share passion, love and companionship. I am more than happy to put you in contact with my long-term partner to verify that she is okay with this arrangement.

I am active the public BDSM scene, attend munches and classes, and play at the Citadel and a couple of private party circuits in the south bay. I enjoy impact play, needle play, and light bondage, as well as a large dose of sensuality and sexual teasing. I have some experience in other types of play and am open to discussing more depending on the interest of my partner.

I would like to find a woman whose energy/chemistry clicks with mine, who I would enjoy spending time with doing kink and vanilla activities. I believe I would be a good match for someone starting to explore the scene, whose partner is not as interested in kink or in participating in public, or someone experienced in poly and looking for a secondary relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a program management director for a technology company, enjoying the excitement and drama of working at a pre-IPO start-up.

I recently moved to Campbell and have been spending a lot of time settling into my new home and working on home improvement projects.

I enjoy spending time with my two boys, going on outings with them and helping them with homework and art projects.
I’m really good at
Planning and organizing things, setting a goal and pursuing it to completion. I'm also a good listener and value clear, honest communication.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m quiet but friendly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
In general, I like thought provoking literature, science fiction, and science fiction/romance. My favorite authors include Linnea Sinclair, Susan Grant, JD Robb, Janet Evanovich, Robert A. Heinlein, John Grisham and Stephen King.

I love movies that transport me to adventure in another time and place. Science fiction and action movies are great fun; especially ones that make you think (like Avatar). Historical/period movies are fun, too (I like history as well as adventure). And poignant romantic movies (Lost in Translation, Dr. Zhivago).

I enjoy a variety of music, including pop, 80s, classic rock, oldies, some jazz and classical. Probably the only music I don’t care for is rap or hip-hop.

I like a wide variety of ethnic food, especially Chinese, Japanese, Thai and Indian.
The six things I could never do without
1) Family, 2) Friends, 3) Love, 4) Books, 5) Movies, 6) Internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I’m devoting a lot of energy toward self improvement. I’ve spent most of my life following the rules and doing what was expected. I am now rethinking that philosophy and decided it’s time to take more risks, have more fun and share my joy and passion with people around me.
On a typical Friday night I am
If I am not on a date, I spend the night hanging out with family or friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It wouldn't be private, then, would it?
If we meet, I'll probably tell you :-)
You should message me if
...you are looking for a loving relationship with a partner who would enjoy kinky and vanilla activities. You have the time, energy and ability to sustain a polyamorous relationship with me; you want to participate in the public BDSM scene, including munches, classes, conferences, and play at public events and private parties; and are adventurous about exploring your sexuality with me. Age and body type are not important, but I would expect you to have your own life, feel good about yourself and have good boundaries and judgment.
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