I'm in the process of a divorce (amicable) and looking to enrich my life with an intimate poly relationship to share passion, love, sex and companionship a few days a month. I am more than happy to put you in contact with my long-term partner fury131313 to verify that she is okay with this arrangement.
I am a sensual sadist, married and experienced in poly and the public BDSM scene. I play at the Citadel and a couple of private party circuits in the south bay, in addition to playing privately. I enjoy impact play, needle play, and light bondage, as well as a large dose of sensuality and sexual teasing. I have some experience in other types of play and am open to discussing more depending on the interest of my partner.
I would like to find a woman whose energy/chemistry clicks with mine, who I would enjoy spending time with doing kink and vanilla activities. I believe I would be a good match for someone starting to explore the scene, whose partner is not as interested in kink or in participating in public, or someone experienced in poly and looking for a secondary relationship.
I enjoy spending time with my family, helping my two boys with homework and art projects.
I'm also an aspiring writer, working on a sci-fi romance novel and some erotic short stories.
I love movies that transport me to adventure in another time and place. Science fiction and action movies are great fun; especially ones that make you think (like Avatar). Historical/period movies are fun, too (I like history as well as adventure). And poignant romantic movies (Lost in Translation, Dr. Zhivago).
I enjoy a variety of music, including pop, 80s, classic rock, oldies, some jazz and classical. Probably the only music I don’t care for is rap or hip-hop.
I like a wide variety of ethnic food, especially Chinese, Japanese, Thai and Indian.
If we meet, I'll probably tell you :-)