42 Ann Arbor, United States
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My self-summary
Looking for the Amy to my Rory.
The Zoe to my Wash.
The Scully to my Mulder.

"You know when, sometimes you meet someone so beautiful, and then you actually talk to them and five minutes later, they’re as dull as a brick? Then there’s other people, and you meet them and you think, ‘Not bad; they’re okay.’ And then you get to know them, and their face sort of becomes them, like their personality is written all over it. And they just turn into something so beautiful."

I enjoy learning about people, and so I still find myself drawn back to this site, reading profiles, remembering that each page represents just a small glimpse into the life of a real person. It's like people watching in a busy downtown, but deeper.

I'm old enough and have been around enough to know what I'm looking for, and to not be willing to settle for less. It doesn't feel like I'm asking for much - someone who knows themselves, who is loving and kind, who enjoys some of the same things I do, who is compassionate to others, and who really wants to share their life with me. Those are the only things that really matter.

Who knows? Maybe I'll find the perfect partner someday.

I'm me. I'm a sum of my experiences, good and bad. All together they have made me who I am and I wouldn't trade away any of them - even the worst of them.
What I’m doing with my life
"Three things in human life are important: the first is to be kind; the second is to be kind; and the third is to be kind."

- Henry James
I’m really good at
Cheering people up, reading people's emotions even when they think they're hiding them, quoting movies and tv shows (especially geeky ones), cooking, fixing things, remembering random facts, problem solving, listening, giving (and receiving) massages, motivating, giving advice, trivia, surfing the internet, sleeping.
The first things people usually notice about me
My sense of humor. I'm not cracking jokes all the time but I tend to make people smile or laugh with my personality.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite Books - Anything by Neil Gaiman, especially Good Omens and Sandman, Harry Potter, Ender's Game, Calvin & Hobbes, Princess Bride, Elsewhere, Sunshine, Griffin & Sabine, Heart Shaped Box, Kite Runner, Fables, Y The Last Man, Les Miserables, Little Brother, Midnight Nation, Dark Tower, Belgariad, Hamlet, Green Mile, Game of Thrones.

Favorite Music - I could be pretentious, but I like what I like. Tori Amos, Ed Sheeran, Ani Difranco, Dixie Chicks, Indigo Girls, Musicals, U2, KebMo, P!nk, Dr Horrible, Pearl Jam, Erasure, Taylor Swift, Les Miserables, Barenaked Ladies, Cirque du Soleil, Cure, Fiona Apple, Depeche Mode, The Smiths, Sarah McLachlan

Favorite TV Shows - Detroit 1-8-7 for giving me my first break, Firefly, Doctor Who, Downton Abbey, The Daily Show with John Stewart, Modern Family, Arrow, Lost, Battlestar Galactica, Arrested Development, West Wing, Veronica Mars, Buffy, Dollhouse, Dead Like Me, Kids in The Hall, Babylon 5, Avatar - The Last Airbender (but not the crappy M Night movie), Twin Peaks, Wonderfalls, Star Trek, Pushing Daisies.

Favorite Movies:Serenity, Star Wars, Pirates of the Caribbean, Casablanca, Lord of the Rings, Avengers (heck, most of the Marvel movies), All Pixar movies (except Cars 2 - not sure what happened there), Inception, Princess Bride, Nightmare Before Christmas, Iron Giant, Coraline, Pulp Fiction, Chasing Amy, Pleasantville, Shawshank Redemption, the Abyss, the Matrix (1st one), Moulin Rouge, (many more I can't think of now)

Favorite Food - Thai, Mexican, Pizza, Middle Eastern, Greek. Give me a good fatoosh salad, Phad Prig, chicken burrito, or Shish Kabob with lemon soup, and you've made me a happy man.
The six things I could never do without
My Kids - they teach me more than anyone.
My Friends - you can get through anything with good friends.
Happiness - because really, what is life worth without this?
Good Books - one's that get inside your head or get inside your soul.
My iPhone - Don't leave home without it!
The Internet - any piece of information you need right at your fingertips? How did the world survive without it?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Pop culture, politics, and the state of the world in general.

Lately I've been thinking about finding love, karma, why no one seems to be around when I have free time, what makes a good date, massages, ways to save energy and consume less, lack of sleep, ways to become independently wealthy, Dreams, what to do for fun, avoiding drama, creating happiness, how to see the patterns in everyday life, how to change the world from my little corner of it.
On a typical Friday night I am
wondering what a typical Friday night is. I could be hanging out with my kids, eating dinner at a nice restaurant with a friend, spending time on a film set, catching up on a book or tv show at home, people watching in downtown Ann Arbor, going to opening night of a new movie, or just falling asleep in bed at too early an hour.

This past Friday: Movie night. Next Friday: Maybe meeting you?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a sarcastic sense of humor. The more I get to know you, the more that comes out. Some people can be put off by that, but hopefully you can dish it right back.

I'm very liberal - although that's not really a private thing.

I'm pretty awesome. Modest, too.

I miss Steve Jobs.
You should message me if
I can't see likes, so if you're interested, drop me a line!

If you have an inner happiness, empathy for other people, a love of life, and a sense of adventure. I'm looking for someone who will enjoy holding hands as we walk down the street, who will trade massages with me when we need them, who will call or text during the day just to say they were thinking of me.

If you have at least one photo of yourself without huge face-covering sunglasses, and if you've at least partially filled out your profile.

If you want to get to know me, and are open to the idea that maybe something will come out of it. If you're the type who gets scared and runs when things are going well, maybe we won't be a good match. But if you're ready and willing to see where your heart may take you, give it a try.

I'm more interested in meeting people in person than in endless emails back and forth. I have a lot of friends all over the world that I communicate with online. I'm looking to meet more friends locally that I can communicate with in person.